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They always say that the rst step is the hardest. That rst surrender, the rst time you<br />
say: Yes, I accept that I need help. I can’t do this alone. Scott struggled with that when<br />
he gave up drinking. He hated the idea that he had to accept help from anything or<br />
anyone. So he fought it, whatever it was. Yet, here I was in full surrender. I had stopped<br />
fighting. I had accepted help from a strange group of women.<br />
Then I walked into a room bathed in candlelight, wearing only a towel. I let that towel<br />
drop around my ankles, and I bared myself. I trusted this process, this man, this<br />
S.E.C.R.E.T. group. But everything that had happened occurred in my home, in my<br />
living room, and though it was my body, I gave it over only temporarily to a complete<br />
stranger. As I recounted this a week later to a rapt Matilda, I couldn’t help but feel I was<br />
talking about my experience as if it had happened to another person, someone I knew<br />
very well but who had aspects I was only just beginning to understand.<br />
I told Matilda I had felt safe, that what we did was erotic, and I was beyond compelled<br />
to complete the fantasy. And for a one-time thing, I had to admit I had felt wanted,<br />
desired, which of course makes any woman feel ecstatic.<br />
“So, yes. I was … transformed, I guess,” I said, burying my burning red face in my<br />
hands, suppressing a giggle. A few weeks ago, I had had no one to talk to, unless you<br />
counted Will. Now, here I was sharing intimate secrets with a woman I could no longer<br />
call a stranger. In fact, I had to admit she was becoming my friend.<br />
During the weeks that followed my first fantasy, I was as busy as I had ever been. I even<br />
took on a couple of night shifts so Tracina and Will could go on dates. When I waved<br />
goodbye to them one of those nights, I couldn’t detect an ounce of jealousy or bitterness<br />
in my bones. Well, maybe a droplet of jealousy, but no bitterness. No longing. No<br />
detectable sadness. I had made a vow to be nicer to Tracina, to try to see what Will saw<br />
in her. Maybe we’d become friends, too, I thought, and Will could make another attempt<br />
to set me up with someone—after I’d completed my Steps, of course. At that moment,<br />
while I was thinking about double dating, Dell caught me whistling in the walk-in<br />
fridge. I sometimes stood in there for a few minutes to cool down, all the while<br />
pretending to look for something.<br />
“What are you so happy about, girl?” she asked, lisping through her missing tooth.<br />
“Life, Dell. It’s a good thing, isn’t it?”<br />
“Not always, no.”<br />
“I think it’s pretty grand,” I said.<br />
“Well, goody for you,” she said as I headed back to the dining area. I left her scooping<br />
out ice cream for a small birthday gathering of bankers.<br />
My couple, my favorite fawning duo, hadn’t returned since the night Pauline dropped<br />
her journal. But thoughts of their caresses were now replaced by lightning ashbacks,