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or the weeks leading up to Mardi Gras, the whole city of New Orleans takes on the<br />
spirit of a bride making last-minute preparations for her big day. No matter that the<br />
festivities take place this year, and next year, and every year, each Mardi Gras feels like<br />
the last, best one.<br />
When I rst moved here, I was fascinated by the krewes, the groups, some ancient,<br />
some modern, that put on the balls and built the oats for Mardi Gras parades. Mostly, I<br />
wondered why you’d spend so much of your spare time sewing costumes and gluing<br />
sequins. But after living here for a few years I began to understand the fatalistic nature<br />
of the average New Orleanian. People in this city tend to live and love vividly for today.<br />
Even if I had wanted to join a krewe, many of the older ones—with names like<br />
Proteus, Rex and Bacchus—were downright impossible to get into, unless your bloodline<br />
was that of Bayou royalty. But nearing the end of my time with S.E.C.R.E.T., I began to<br />
feel that strong tug to belong to someone or something—which is, after all, the only<br />
antidote to loneliness. I was starting to see that melancholy isn’t romantic. It’s just a<br />
prettier word for depression.<br />
In the month before Mardi Gras, I couldn’t walk down a street in Marigny or Tremé,<br />
let alone the French Quarter, without envying those sewing circles gathered on a porch,<br />
hand-stitching sparkly costumes and securing sequins to elaborate masks or sky-high<br />
feathered headdresses. Other nights, I’d take a run through the Warehouse District and<br />
spot, through a crack in a door, spray-painters in masks putting the nishing touches on<br />
a vivid float. My heart would skip a beat and I was able to let in a little joy.<br />
But there was one event that struck my heart with sheer, unadulterated terror: the<br />
annual Les Filles de Frenchmen Revue, a Mardi Gras burlesque show featuring the<br />
women who worked at the bars and restaurants in Marigny. It was considered a sexy<br />
way for our neighborhood to celebrate, and every year Tracina, one of the lead<br />
organizers, perfunctorily asked if I wanted to participate. Every year I said no.<br />
Unequivocally no. Will allowed Les Filles to use the second oor of the Café to rehearse<br />
their dances, never failing to mention that if twenty girls can stomp around upstairs<br />
without falling through the ancient oorboards, surely twenty customers quietly sitting<br />
and eating wouldn’t pose any danger either.<br />
This year, not only did Tracina fail to ask me to participate, she also bowed out of the<br />
revue herself, citing family obligations. Will told me her brother’s condition was getting<br />
more complicated to deal with as he hit adolescence, something I tried then to keep in<br />
mind whenever I was on the cusp of criticizing her.<br />
I was surprised when Will put the gears to me about joining Les Filles.<br />
“Come on, Cassie. Who’s going to represent Café Rose at the Revue?”<br />
“Dell. She has really nice legs,” I said, avoiding eye contact with him while wiping<br />
down the coffee station.<br />
“But—”