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The Duchy of Jerald

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Answer: it's awful to not be able to move and get around properly.<br />

Dispute: Awful and terrible mean I'm going to die from it. Am I dying from this brain injury?<br />

Rational Belief: No I am not dying. In fact I am recovering, this is not a degenerative disease,<br />

this is an injury that my body deals with just fine, given it has lots <strong>of</strong> activity.<br />

What are you saying to yourself about the situation that indicates low frustration tolerance?<br />

Answer: I can't stand it.<br />

Dispute: Is there any evidence that I can't stand this?<br />

Rational Belief: <strong>The</strong>re is no evidence at all. <strong>The</strong> evidence is I have been standing the<br />

discomfort <strong>of</strong> many injuries my entire life, I am standing this injury discomfort (because I am not<br />

dead), so I will continue to stand this discomfort and deal with it.<br />

What beliefs show that you are rating people instead <strong>of</strong> rating their actions?<br />

Answer: I'm a broken down piece <strong>of</strong> human garbage<br />

Dispute: Is there any evidence for this belief?<br />

Rational Belief: <strong>The</strong>re is no evidence. <strong>The</strong> fact that my body is healing is evidence <strong>of</strong> high<br />

functioning, not the reverse.<br />

How are you overgeneralizing about the situation?<br />

Answer: My body let me down, and I'll never get better<br />

Dispute: Did my body let me down? Never?<br />

Rational Belief: My brain was struck by a random piece <strong>of</strong> plaque, that could and does<br />

happen to to anybody <strong>of</strong> any age. This was not lifestyle related or self abuse related. In fact it's<br />

been 20 years since I had a cigarette and over 30 since I drank or indulged in pot. My weight is<br />

within my BMI, and I work out regularly, paying attention to eating healthily making my own<br />

food, even yogurt, and avoiding packaged and junk processed foods, grain and sugar free for a<br />

decade.<br />

What are your new healthy negative emotions?<br />

(sadness, concern, regret, disappointment, annoyance)<br />

Answer: concern, disappointment, annoyance

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