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The Duchy of Jerald

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This <strong>of</strong> course is followed by the dumping, “we wouldn't be harmonious”, so therefore I'm not<br />

a candidate for harmony which is usually don't talk, don't trust, don't feel in dysfunctional<br />

relations. Dictionary.com defines it as ‘a consistent, orderly, or pleasing arrangement <strong>of</strong> parts;<br />

congruity’. This sounds extremely fascist and authoritarian to me. Trump would be pleased.<br />

Actually harmony is created my soon to be ex friend by frank conversation, and willingness to<br />

compromise. Asking for what you want frankly is a relationship deepening exercise, which<br />

involves a bit <strong>of</strong> tension, and is therefore unharmonious.<br />

But since I’ve been overvalued, undervalued, dumped for the crime <strong>of</strong> not being ‘nice’ and<br />

potentially unharmonious, I will take my frank conversation and willingness to compromise to<br />

some other stranger whom I will ask for what I want, a self helping exercise. Who knows, they<br />

may want more than a dishonest relationship killing ‘nice’.<br />

Yours in sincere and honest disappointment, as well as relief from dodging the bullet.<br />

<strong>Jerald</strong>

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