Cosmopolitan Bride Magazine Australia - Summer 2014-2015
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PHOTOGRAPHY BY NICK SCOTT/BAUERSYNDICATION.COM.AU<br />
we had four children at a ceremony<br />
release balloons to commemorate the<br />
lives of the bride and groom’s parents<br />
– it was a nice way to remember them,<br />
without focusing on the sadness that<br />
they’re gone.”<br />
Keep in mind that kids get bored –<br />
easily. If you’re planning on inviting kids<br />
to a church ceremony, consider that they<br />
might get frustrated by sitting for long<br />
periods of time. Call their parents before<br />
the day and kindly let them know that if<br />
their kids start crying or acting up; it’s<br />
fine for them to take a breather from the<br />
proceedings. It’s just a much nicer way of<br />
saying, “Please vacate so that I can hear<br />
myself think while I get married to the<br />
man of my dreams.”<br />
At the reception<br />
You don’t have to go to a great deal of<br />
effort to make kids feel included and<br />
special at your wedding, but it’s nice to<br />
bear in mind that weddings are a chance<br />
for adults to unwind and relax… so don’t<br />
expect kids to be on their absolute best<br />
behaviour, either! Let them have fun.<br />
Have a dedicated kids’ table covered with<br />
butcher’s paper and crayons, and let them<br />
go mad. Make kids’ packs filled with little<br />
treats: colouring books and pencils, Play-<br />
Doh, stickers, blowing bubbles and yummy<br />
things to nibble on (just check that nobody<br />
has allergies!).<br />
If you have the room for it, consider<br />
having a dedicated kids’ space – any<br />
events planner worth their salt will be<br />
able to throw together a few chairs, tables<br />
and toys for kids to muck around with.<br />
And if your budget stretches far enough,<br />
a nanny (or two) is an excellent investment<br />
– the adults will be able to party on while<br />
the kids are under watchful eyes.<br />
If you’re inviting super-little ones, it’s<br />
nice to make sure there’s a parents’ room<br />
where babies can be fed in peace, or where<br />
mums and dads can get a little time out.<br />
Most venues will have an anteroom that<br />
you can use.<br />
When it comes to food, it’s best to<br />
serve kids their own menu. Again, keep<br />
it simple – most kids are happy with<br />
sandwiches, fruit and crackers. Check for<br />
allergies and dietary requirements, and<br />
consider throwing in some treats, too,<br />
like biscuits or lollies (yummy food will<br />
go a long way). You’ll officially be The<br />
World’s Coolest Auntie, trust us.<br />
Lauren Smelcher Sams #<br />
SOME OTHER COOL IDEAS<br />
THAT KIDS WILL LOVE:<br />
• Make like model Poppy Delevingne<br />
and invite kids to wear dress-up<br />
clothes – spotted on her mini guest<br />
was an animal onesie. Adorable.<br />
• Give each kid a disposable camera<br />
and ask them to be your junior<br />
photographers. The results might<br />
surprise you (or not – in any case,<br />
they’ll be occupied…).<br />
• Wedding piñatas are a thing now<br />
– and unsurprisingly, kids love them.<br />
Have a look on Etsy (etsy.com) for<br />
one that suits your theme.<br />
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