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Focus on the Family Magazine - June/July 2020

It can be a struggle to raise a family while balancing your work life, social life and relationships. Focus on the Family magazine is here to help! Each complimentary issue delivers fresh, practical Biblical guidance on family and life topics.

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FAITH & INSPIRATION / MISSIONS<br />

B<strong>on</strong>ds that span<br />

generati<strong>on</strong>s<br />

Most people zip past Boquillas, a town<br />

of 500 homes in Guanajuato, Mexico,<br />

without a sec<strong>on</strong>d glance. But <strong>the</strong><br />

Stephens family isn’t like most folks.<br />

Boquillas has become a sec<strong>on</strong>d home<br />

to <strong>the</strong> family, who have visited annually<br />

for two decades.<br />

It all started in 1998 when a former<br />

resident of Boquillas asked <strong>the</strong><br />

Sunday-school class that Mark and<br />

Beth Stephens attended to d<strong>on</strong>ate<br />

Bibles. One thing led to ano<strong>the</strong>r, and<br />

before <strong>the</strong>y knew it, Mark and Beth<br />

and <strong>the</strong>ir three children were in<br />

a “crummy red bus ” <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong>ir way to<br />

help build bathrooms for <strong>the</strong> church<br />

in Boquillas and lead vacati<strong>on</strong> Bible<br />

school (VBS). Mark says he went with<br />

“half a heart” for <strong>the</strong> task. Before <strong>the</strong><br />

week’s end, he loved <strong>the</strong> townspeople<br />

with his “whole heart” and knew his<br />

family had to return <strong>the</strong> next year.<br />

Since <strong>the</strong>n, Mark, his wife, Beth, and<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir children have been <strong>on</strong> several<br />

teams that assist pastors in Boquillas.<br />

From fixing sewer lines to building<br />

a playground, <strong>the</strong> Stephenses<br />

have c<strong>on</strong>tributed to <strong>the</strong> town’s physical<br />

maintenance; however, <strong>the</strong>y see<br />

<strong>the</strong>ir greatest accomplishment as<br />

having built relati<strong>on</strong>ships that span<br />

two generati<strong>on</strong>s.<br />

The Stephens girls—Katie and<br />

Wendy—were 6 and 8 when <strong>the</strong>y<br />

first visited Boquillas. Wendy says<br />

kids that age “can make friends with<br />

any<strong>on</strong>e,” and <strong>the</strong> language barrier<br />

wasn’t a factor. When <strong>the</strong> Stephens<br />

girls went back <strong>the</strong> next year, <strong>the</strong>y<br />

instantly renewed those friendships.<br />

As teens, <strong>the</strong> girls b<strong>on</strong>ded with local<br />

youth doing goal-oriented activities,<br />

such as a mock “Amazing Race.”<br />

Scotty, who has Down syndrome,<br />

was just 4 years old <strong>on</strong> <strong>the</strong> first<br />

trip. His joyful presence has helped<br />

change <strong>the</strong> locals’ cultural prec<strong>on</strong>cepti<strong>on</strong>s<br />

about children with special<br />

needs. Katie remembers when Scotty<br />

was 10 and was able to show off his<br />

ability with competitive cup stacking<br />

during game time at VBS. “The o<strong>the</strong>r<br />

kids were cheering for him,” she<br />

recalls. “It was really special.”<br />

J<strong>on</strong>athan, <strong>the</strong>ir fourth child, was<br />

18 m<strong>on</strong>ths old during his first trip<br />

in 2000. Over <strong>the</strong> years, his role has<br />

been to participate in sports camps<br />

with <strong>the</strong> village boys. During <strong>on</strong>e<br />

of his last visits, he shared his testim<strong>on</strong>y<br />

in Spanish with <strong>on</strong>e of <strong>the</strong><br />

local teens. When asked why he’s<br />

willing to give up his spring break<br />

every year to serve in Boquillas, he<br />

admits that real vacati<strong>on</strong>s are nice,<br />

but he finds ministry refreshing. “I<br />

get renewed in <strong>the</strong> Gospel in a way I<br />

d<strong>on</strong>’t always see it at home,” he says.<br />

Mark and Beth have become spiritual<br />

leaders in Boquillas. They’ve<br />

taught marriage, <strong>the</strong>ology and discipleship<br />

classes. Beth finds that<br />

visiting annually builds str<strong>on</strong>ger relati<strong>on</strong>ships.<br />

Students she taught in<br />

VBS now have children attending <strong>the</strong><br />

event. Mark and Beth have also established<br />

<strong>the</strong>mselves as spiritual leaders<br />

(TOP) STOCKSY.COM / BRUCE AND REBECCA MEISSNER; STOCKSY.COM / ALI HARPER<br />

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FOCUS ON THE FAMILY<br />

<strong>June</strong> / <strong>July</strong> <strong>2020</strong>

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