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while still maintaining a realistic<br />

understanding of the challenges<br />

you might face.”<br />

Lesley suggests that maintaining<br />

a positive mindset is all about the<br />

ratio. “In order to have a positive<br />

mindset, we need to experience<br />

more positive than negative<br />

emotions (experts generally agree<br />

this is a 3:1 ratio). The good news<br />

is that even the briefest experience<br />

of a positive emotion is enough to<br />

make a significant difference to<br />

our positive mindset.”<br />

In fact, even the simple pleasures<br />

in life – such as enjoying a<br />

delicious cup of coffee, or listening<br />

to birds sing – can bring us joy, and<br />

it’s important that we consciously<br />

notice these moments and hold<br />

on to them. And this is where<br />

hypnotherapy comes into play.<br />

How does it work?<br />

At times, we can get stuck in<br />

negative thought patterns and<br />

cycles that serve no use, but we still<br />

unconsciously give these patterns<br />

power to dictate our lives.<br />

Negative thought patterns are<br />

habits that we have learned, and<br />

any habit can be ‘unlearned’. It<br />

takes practise and patience, and<br />

hypnotherapy can be an effective<br />

tool in ensuring an automatic<br />

positive mindset becomes an<br />

everyday response.<br />

Hypnotherapist James Brannan<br />

explains that the brain is<br />

constantly working to automate<br />

responses wherever possible. So<br />

when we have a learned, negative<br />

habit, intervention is needed<br />

to reinforce positive responses.<br />

James says: “Sometimes your brain<br />

will make snapshot decisions<br />

about what something means, and<br />

how to respond to such things in<br />

Negative thought patterns are<br />

habits that we have learned, and<br />

any habit can be ‘unlearned’<br />

the future. Your brain automates<br />

certain responses in order to free<br />

you up to engage with new things<br />

effectively.<br />

“This is great in one way, because<br />

it means we can keep moving<br />

between focuses and attend to<br />

many things in life. However, the<br />

downside is that we sometimes<br />

end up with responses that we<br />

don’t like doing and feeling, and<br />

yet they run unconsciously.”<br />

The practice of hypnotherapy can<br />

help change this automatic pattern<br />

by activating those responses (in<br />

a safe, comfortable environment<br />

such as the hypnotherapist’s<br />

office or your home) and then<br />

introducing them “to new brain<br />

cell networks”, by the power of<br />

suggestion.<br />

James says: “Rather than firing<br />

round the same old loops and<br />

keeping the old responses going,<br />

when present brain cell activity<br />

gets connected to other brain cell<br />

activity, then things change. Using<br />

hypnotherapy, it’s like we can join<br />

32 • happiful.com • <strong>July</strong> <strong>2020</strong>

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