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Tapping<br />

anxiety<br />

away<br />

Could saying a few words while tapping your body ease anxiety? That<br />

is the result emotional freedom technique (EFT) aims for. <strong>Happiful</strong>’s<br />

Kat Nicholls puts tapping to the test to see what it’s all about<br />

As soon as my alarm<br />

goes off, I get a familiar<br />

feeling in my chest. It’s<br />

Monday morning, the<br />

week ahead is going to be busy,<br />

and I’m feeling anxious. But a<br />

few hours later, I’m feeling a little<br />

calmer and ready to join my Zoom<br />

call with Charlie O’Brien – clinical<br />

hypnotherapist, life coach and<br />

EFT practitioner – for my first ever<br />

emotional freedom technique<br />

(EFT) session.<br />

Having written about EFT before,<br />

I already had an idea of what to<br />

expect – tapping acupuncture<br />

points on your body while<br />

repeating statements about a<br />

problem you’re encountering.<br />

But experiencing it first hand<br />

(quite literally) is another matter.<br />

What makes it so powerful is the<br />

way it ‘updates the brain’s learning’<br />

– as outlined in Dr Peta Stapleton’s<br />

TEDx talk, ‘Is therapy facing a<br />

revolution?’ Dr Stapleton explains<br />

that the combination of accessing<br />

a difficult memory or feeling while<br />

in a ‘contrary’ state (relaxed), and<br />

repeating the process, updates<br />

our brain’s learning. The secret to<br />

getting into that relaxed state is in<br />

the tapping.<br />

A 10-year research trial by<br />

Harvard University has revealed<br />

that stimulating these acupuncture<br />

points sends a signal to the<br />

amygdala in our brain to calm<br />

down. With just one hour of<br />

tapping, our stress hormone<br />

levels can be reduced by 24%. For<br />

comparison, if we were to lie down<br />

and rest for an hour, our stress<br />

hormone levels would only reduce<br />

by 14%.<br />

Before our session, Charlie<br />

told me about her own tapping<br />

experience as she was training to<br />

be an EFT practitioner.<br />

“I tapped on a ‘feeling’ I got in my<br />

stomach if anyone ever mentioned<br />

my abusive ex’s name. Over the<br />

years I’d worked on the trauma,<br />

but this horrible feeling still clung<br />

on and I decided it was time to<br />

completely release myself from the<br />

past trauma.<br />

⁣“It worked. That’s all I can say.<br />

Ever since that day I’ve not been<br />

able to recall that nasty feeling<br />

in my stomach. That person no<br />

longer has control over me, and it’s<br />

liberating.”<br />

The idea of being able to tap away<br />

a problem is an enticing one, and<br />

I knew the quest to be free from<br />

anxiety was my white whale.<br />

We began our session by talking<br />

about anxiety, and specifically<br />

how I was feeling there and then.<br />

Charlie asked me where I could<br />

feel anxiety in my body (in my<br />

torso, mainly my chest), how it<br />

felt (fluttery, like butterflies), and<br />

where my anxiety levels were on a<br />

scale from 0 to 10 (about a four).<br />

Charlie then showed me the first<br />

tapping point, the ‘karate chop’ on<br />

the outside edge of my palm. We<br />

tapped this and repeated a ‘set-up<br />

statement’ to get us in the right<br />

48 • happiful.com • <strong>July</strong> <strong>2020</strong>

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