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Ask the experts<br />
Belinda Raitt answers your<br />
questions on working during the<br />
pandemic<br />
Read more about Belinda on<br />
lifecoach-directory.org.uk<br />
QI’ve been made<br />
redundant and<br />
am feeling lost.<br />
What are some next<br />
steps I can take?<br />
Redundancy can feel<br />
A hugely unsettling. Any<br />
change in our lives requires<br />
adjustment, and we tend to<br />
attach a lot of meaning to<br />
Q<br />
I’ve realised<br />
during lockdown<br />
that I’m unhappy<br />
in my job, and want to<br />
launch my own business<br />
– but I’m scared to<br />
make the jump. Do you<br />
have any advice?<br />
A<br />
Go for it! Life is too short to<br />
be unhappy in your job. The<br />
Japanese have a concept called<br />
our work. We often use it to<br />
define who we are, so when<br />
we no longer have a job, we<br />
can struggle with a sense of<br />
identity, along with worries<br />
about whether we have enough<br />
savings to keep us going.<br />
These concerns often make<br />
us jump into the first job that<br />
comes along, regardless of<br />
whether it’s the right fit. Treat<br />
ikigai, which roughly translates<br />
as your sense of purpose, and<br />
what gets you out of bed in the<br />
morning. For them, it’s a way of<br />
life, and to not feel a sense of<br />
enjoyment and purpose in your<br />
work is unacceptable.<br />
If you have a chance to do<br />
something that gives you<br />
this sense of purpose, do<br />
it! Change is scary – it’s the<br />
fear of the unknown – but<br />
experience shows that our<br />
this pause as an opportunity<br />
to explore what you really<br />
want and need from your<br />
work (and life!). Be kind to<br />
yourself. We make better<br />
decisions when we’re in a<br />
good place, so take time<br />
to relax and focus on your<br />
health (mental and physical)<br />
so that you stay positive and<br />
focused.<br />
brains imagine scenarios far<br />
worse than reality. Do your<br />
market research, don’t be<br />
afraid to ask for advice from<br />
friends or others in the industry.<br />
Also, trust your instincts. A<br />
business plan helps to work<br />
out cash flow and where<br />
the money will come from.<br />
A business is more likely to<br />
succeed if you can be flexible<br />
enough to adapt to changing<br />
circumstances.<br />
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