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Ask the experts<br />

Belinda Raitt answers your<br />

questions on working during the<br />

pandemic<br />

Read more about Belinda on<br />

lifecoach-directory.org.uk<br />

QI’ve been made<br />

redundant and<br />

am feeling lost.<br />

What are some next<br />

steps I can take?<br />

Redundancy can feel<br />

A hugely unsettling. Any<br />

change in our lives requires<br />

adjustment, and we tend to<br />

attach a lot of meaning to<br />

Q<br />

I’ve realised<br />

during lockdown<br />

that I’m unhappy<br />

in my job, and want to<br />

launch my own business<br />

– but I’m scared to<br />

make the jump. Do you<br />

have any advice?<br />

A<br />

Go for it! Life is too short to<br />

be unhappy in your job. The<br />

Japanese have a concept called<br />

our work. We often use it to<br />

define who we are, so when<br />

we no longer have a job, we<br />

can struggle with a sense of<br />

identity, along with worries<br />

about whether we have enough<br />

savings to keep us going.<br />

These concerns often make<br />

us jump into the first job that<br />

comes along, regardless of<br />

whether it’s the right fit. Treat<br />

ikigai, which roughly translates<br />

as your sense of purpose, and<br />

what gets you out of bed in the<br />

morning. For them, it’s a way of<br />

life, and to not feel a sense of<br />

enjoyment and purpose in your<br />

work is unacceptable.<br />

If you have a chance to do<br />

something that gives you<br />

this sense of purpose, do<br />

it! Change is scary – it’s the<br />

fear of the unknown – but<br />

experience shows that our<br />

this pause as an opportunity<br />

to explore what you really<br />

want and need from your<br />

work (and life!). Be kind to<br />

yourself. We make better<br />

decisions when we’re in a<br />

good place, so take time<br />

to relax and focus on your<br />

health (mental and physical)<br />

so that you stay positive and<br />

focused.<br />

brains imagine scenarios far<br />

worse than reality. Do your<br />

market research, don’t be<br />

afraid to ask for advice from<br />

friends or others in the industry.<br />

Also, trust your instincts. A<br />

business plan helps to work<br />

out cash flow and where<br />

the money will come from.<br />

A business is more likely to<br />

succeed if you can be flexible<br />

enough to adapt to changing<br />

circumstances.<br />

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