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The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest

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THE MOUNTAIN IS YOU

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Of course, that doesn’t mean that our thoughts are useless.

It just means that they are not always reflective of

reality and should be used as more of suggestions than

anything else.

WHY CAN’T PEOPLE FIND THEIR INNER PEACE EASILY?

The answer is that they can; most people just aren’t instructed

on how to. But beyond that, most people are

actually too scared to go into their own feeling states, because

their inner child is too traumatized.

Everyone has an “inner child”; it is the part of you that is

most innocent and pure, and it never goes away. 21 Over

time, it is your responsibility for you to learn how to parent

this inner child, who will honestly be the one to push you

away from your inner peace. They will be the one to throw

a tantrum and tell you that everything is falling apart and

that you’re going to die and that you should just give up.

In the same way that you wouldn’t let a child run your

waking life now, you can’t always believe what your inner

child is afraid of. You can, however, learn to work with

them, heal them, and make them feel safe...in the way any

good parent would.

Stephen Diamond explains it like this: “To begin with,

the inner child is real. Not literally. Nor physically. But

figuratively, metaphorically real. It is, like complexes in

general, a psychological or phenomenological reality, and

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