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Talk to Your Grandkids<br />
By: Craig Smith / Exploring Your Roots<br />
This is the time of the year that most genealogists<br />
tell us to get organized. It is a good idea and<br />
spring cleaning your genealogy documents and<br />
records is always<br />
recommended.<br />
Additionally, recording a session with your<br />
grandchildren for genealogy purposes can be<br />
a wonderful way to preserve family memories<br />
and stories for future generations. Here’s a<br />
simple guide to help you make the most of<br />
your recording session:<br />
1. Select a quiet and comfortable space<br />
where you and your grandchildren can sit<br />
and talk without distractions.<br />
2. Make sure the lighting and background are suitable for recording.<br />
3. Think about some family-related topics or questions you’d like to<br />
discuss during the session. This could include asking about their favorite<br />
family traditions, memories of relatives, or significant events in your<br />
family’s history.<br />
Seems silly but it is important to preserve full names accurately.<br />
Encourage your grandchildren to share their thoughts, memories, and<br />
experiences related to your family. Ask open-ended questions to prompt<br />
detailed responses. For example:<br />
1. Can you tell me about your favorite family tradition?<br />
2. Do you have any special memories of family gatherings or holidays?<br />
Don’t hesitate to share your own stories and experiences with your<br />
grandchildren. This can help them connect<br />
with their family history and learn more<br />
about their roots.<br />
After the session, make sure to save the<br />
recording in a safe and easily accessible<br />
location. You may also want to organize it<br />
alongside other family history documents and<br />
recordings for future reference.<br />
Genealogy is not only about preserving<br />
the past but also about strengthening bonds<br />
across generations. Don’t make the mistake I did.<br />
My grandfather lived with us the last five years of his life. I wish I<br />
had asked questions about his past. I have many loose ends about my<br />
grandparents that I may sadly never discover.<br />
Craig Smith is the President of the Clark County Nevada<br />
Genealogical Society. Craig can be contacted at president@ccngs.<br />
org<br />
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Intuition: The Most Sacred Gift<br />
By: Ali Guggenheim / Psychic Phenomenon<br />
One of my most profound intuitive experiences<br />
occurred in 1991 after shedding 176 lbs.<br />
I self-published a book, Love Your Fat Away,<br />
a self-love workbook. It was a heartfelt book that people responded to<br />
well and a fluke that somehow<br />
ended up on six small best-seller<br />
lists.<br />
Some of the benefits that<br />
arose from the massive publicity<br />
I received was that various<br />
organizations invited me to<br />
attend their seminars so that<br />
they could benefit from my<br />
attendance and possibly use my<br />
name in their publicity.<br />
One of those events was a catered dinner and lecture on relationships<br />
at a private mansion overlooking Lake Michigan in Illinois. The speaker,<br />
JC, was a Nassau physicist who gave weekend seminars all over the U.S.<br />
From the minute our eyes connected, JC explained that he already<br />
knew everything about me and had been looking for someone like me<br />
to date and partner with for a long time. His attentiveness surprised and<br />
flattered me.<br />
JC wooed me on the phone all week. He suggested that we write a<br />
<strong>May</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />
relationship book together and that his manager manage us both.<br />
JC, his manager, Pam, and I brunched the following weekend. I<br />
followed them to his intensive workshop in Schaumburg.<br />
He was everything a woman could ask for, so why was my gut unsettled<br />
since I met him? JC repeatedly insisted that Pam was strictly his manager.<br />
So I asked her directly when<br />
I got her alone. She told me<br />
he had proposed to her the day<br />
before and accused me of being<br />
a problem. I left immediately.<br />
After a few days, she called<br />
and asked what he said about<br />
her. There was a silent pause,<br />
and she said, “Oh my God, those<br />
are the same phrases he used<br />
to describe Lisa, a woman in<br />
Milwaukee.”<br />
Over the next month, we uncovered a total of seven fiances. All beautiful,<br />
wealthy, successful women that he was in the process of conning.<br />
Ten years later, a successful therapist and a friend in Laguna Beach,<br />
called to tell me she was selling her 24-year practice to travel and teach<br />
relationship workshops with the love of her life. It was JC.<br />
To contact Ali or for spiritual consultations, coaching, workshops<br />
and readings, email: alivegasvoice@yahoo.com.