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Talk to Your Grandkids<br />

By: Craig Smith / Exploring Your Roots<br />

This is the time of the year that most genealogists<br />

tell us to get organized. It is a good idea and<br />

spring cleaning your genealogy documents and<br />

records is always<br />

recommended.<br />

Additionally, recording a session with your<br />

grandchildren for genealogy purposes can be<br />

a wonderful way to preserve family memories<br />

and stories for future generations. Here’s a<br />

simple guide to help you make the most of<br />

your recording session:<br />

1. Select a quiet and comfortable space<br />

where you and your grandchildren can sit<br />

and talk without distractions.<br />

2. Make sure the lighting and background are suitable for recording.<br />

3. Think about some family-related topics or questions you’d like to<br />

discuss during the session. This could include asking about their favorite<br />

family traditions, memories of relatives, or significant events in your<br />

family’s history.<br />

Seems silly but it is important to preserve full names accurately.<br />

Encourage your grandchildren to share their thoughts, memories, and<br />

experiences related to your family. Ask open-ended questions to prompt<br />

detailed responses. For example:<br />

1. Can you tell me about your favorite family tradition?<br />

2. Do you have any special memories of family gatherings or holidays?<br />

Don’t hesitate to share your own stories and experiences with your<br />

grandchildren. This can help them connect<br />

with their family history and learn more<br />

about their roots.<br />

After the session, make sure to save the<br />

recording in a safe and easily accessible<br />

location. You may also want to organize it<br />

alongside other family history documents and<br />

recordings for future reference.<br />

Genealogy is not only about preserving<br />

the past but also about strengthening bonds<br />

across generations. Don’t make the mistake I did.<br />

My grandfather lived with us the last five years of his life. I wish I<br />

had asked questions about his past. I have many loose ends about my<br />

grandparents that I may sadly never discover.<br />

Craig Smith is the President of the Clark County Nevada<br />

Genealogical Society. Craig can be contacted at president@ccngs.<br />

org<br />

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Intuition: The Most Sacred Gift<br />

By: Ali Guggenheim / Psychic Phenomenon<br />

One of my most profound intuitive experiences<br />

occurred in 1991 after shedding 176 lbs.<br />

I self-published a book, Love Your Fat Away,<br />

a self-love workbook. It was a heartfelt book that people responded to<br />

well and a fluke that somehow<br />

ended up on six small best-seller<br />

lists.<br />

Some of the benefits that<br />

arose from the massive publicity<br />

I received was that various<br />

organizations invited me to<br />

attend their seminars so that<br />

they could benefit from my<br />

attendance and possibly use my<br />

name in their publicity.<br />

One of those events was a catered dinner and lecture on relationships<br />

at a private mansion overlooking Lake Michigan in Illinois. The speaker,<br />

JC, was a Nassau physicist who gave weekend seminars all over the U.S.<br />

From the minute our eyes connected, JC explained that he already<br />

knew everything about me and had been looking for someone like me<br />

to date and partner with for a long time. His attentiveness surprised and<br />

flattered me.<br />

JC wooed me on the phone all week. He suggested that we write a<br />

<strong>May</strong> <strong>2024</strong><br />

relationship book together and that his manager manage us both.<br />

JC, his manager, Pam, and I brunched the following weekend. I<br />

followed them to his intensive workshop in Schaumburg.<br />

He was everything a woman could ask for, so why was my gut unsettled<br />

since I met him? JC repeatedly insisted that Pam was strictly his manager.<br />

So I asked her directly when<br />

I got her alone. She told me<br />

he had proposed to her the day<br />

before and accused me of being<br />

a problem. I left immediately.<br />

After a few days, she called<br />

and asked what he said about<br />

her. There was a silent pause,<br />

and she said, “Oh my God, those<br />

are the same phrases he used<br />

to describe Lisa, a woman in<br />

Milwaukee.”<br />

Over the next month, we uncovered a total of seven fiances. All beautiful,<br />

wealthy, successful women that he was in the process of conning.<br />

Ten years later, a successful therapist and a friend in Laguna Beach,<br />

called to tell me she was selling her 24-year practice to travel and teach<br />

relationship workshops with the love of her life. It was JC.<br />

To contact Ali or for spiritual consultations, coaching, workshops<br />

and readings, email: alivegasvoice@yahoo.com.

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