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98 Ruth Codier Resch Without Utterance:<br />
sometimes redwood sequoia, my sisters. When I move to my mountain home<br />
and step into <strong>the</strong> yard, <strong>the</strong> sequoias greet me, and I feel an invitation to settle<br />
at <strong>the</strong>ir roots. Like with my crow friend and <strong>the</strong> poodle, I feel <strong>the</strong> sensory<br />
reciprocity <strong>of</strong> non-verbal, non-cognitive language with many beings o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
than humans.<br />
Apart from talking to Leigh, my painting buddy, my bro<strong>the</strong>r, and my<br />
psychoanalytic colleague, I hold much private about this journey. I don’t yet<br />
have <strong>the</strong> language to speak <strong>the</strong>se experiences <strong>of</strong> sensing and being in o<strong>the</strong>r<br />
realms with non-ordinary, non-material presences. When I try, o<strong>the</strong>r people’s<br />
ears go deaf like I’m speaking into an empty room.<br />
As <strong>the</strong> months <strong>of</strong> practice go by, I am more confident but still <strong>of</strong>ten<br />
riddled with anxiety and doubt, and I settle on a desire to be in <strong>the</strong> healing<br />
room itself, to watch what <strong>the</strong>y’re doing with my daughter. When I express<br />
my desire to protect <strong>her</strong> in my morning meditation, I see an enormous tree<br />
with a large space between <strong>the</strong> roots that encloses <strong>the</strong> ceremony. I observe my<br />
daughter, <strong>the</strong> shaman, and <strong>her</strong> assistants are all safe inside, and I’m sitting<br />
on <strong>the</strong> ground outside. My ear is pressed to <strong>the</strong> thick trunk and I can hear<br />
everything inside. Later I find that <strong>the</strong> West Gate is <strong>the</strong> porch just outside<br />
<strong>the</strong> shaman’s ceremony room, with open sliding doors to <strong>the</strong> warm July day,<br />
w<strong>her</strong>e I will, in fact, hear everything.<br />
The shaman calls on <strong>the</strong> phone to tell me <strong>her</strong> husband has been in a<br />
construction accident, is going into surgery, and will need recovery time. She<br />
is apologetic, but has to reset <strong>the</strong> ceremony for two months later.<br />
I’m in a fretful temper a few mornings later. “All this effort for what?<br />
Will all this have any effect on my daughter’s health?”<br />
I call for <strong>the</strong> presence <strong>of</strong> <strong>the</strong> Great Mo<strong>the</strong>r Kali and tell <strong>her</strong>, “If you will<br />
heal my daughter, I am yours.” When my mood is better, I am shocked with<br />
what I have done. I think <strong>of</strong> Faust, who sold his soul to <strong>the</strong> Devil in Dante’s<br />
story. Have I done that? What is <strong>the</strong> reality <strong>of</strong> my request? How far does<br />
this sensory mind go? I have learned to put protections—a discriminating<br />
mind—in place, but have I naively gone too far?