UNIT 9LOVE IS WHAT YOU NEEDDiscussi<strong>on</strong> point1. Are your parents good friends?2. Do they understand that you are growing up?3. Do mothers worry too much?4. Do fathers act from good motives?5. Do you need so much care?6. Do you like big families?Where do you think it was said?“Hard days have come, children do not respect their parents...” Ancient Babyl<strong>on</strong>Read the text and answer the comprehensi<strong>on</strong> questi<strong>on</strong>s.YOU AND GROWN UPSPeople always talk about the problem of youth. If there is such a problem, which Idoubt, I think it is older people who create it, not the young themselves.There is <strong>on</strong>ly <strong>on</strong>e difference between an old man and a young <strong>on</strong>e. The young manhas a brilliant future before him and the old man has a splendid past behind him andmaybe that is where the problem is.When I was a teenager I felt that I was just young and uncertain, that I was a newboy in a big school. I was glad to know I was a problem to somebody because then I waspaid more attenti<strong>on</strong> to, and that is <strong>on</strong>e of the things young people like.I find young people interesting. A young pers<strong>on</strong> may be self-c<strong>on</strong>fident, sometimestactless or selfish, ill-mannered or touchy, buy they do not live yet for m<strong>on</strong>ey or comfortand they are free. They have no devoti<strong>on</strong> to material things.I never talk to them about respect for elders: age is not a reas<strong>on</strong> for respect. And Iwill speak with them as equals if I think they are wr<strong>on</strong>g.Comprehensi<strong>on</strong>Fielden Hughes, Out of the Air (adapted)1. What are the differences between old men and young men?2. Name three features in young people which the author likes.3. What are the negative features he names? Are they really negative?107
<str<strong>on</strong>g>Focus</str<strong>on</strong>g> <strong>on</strong> words1. Collecting wordsfamily:nuclear/single parent/extended; family members: father/dad,mother/mom, aunt/auntie, younger/older brother/sister,stepfather/stepmother;nearest and dearest: niece/nephew, cousin, wife, husband, adopted child;relati<strong>on</strong>ships: brotherly/sisterly affecti<strong>on</strong>/b<strong>on</strong>ds, to get <strong>on</strong> well with, to seemuch of each other, to spend a lot of time together, to be <strong>on</strong>friendly terms with sb, to have a lot in comm<strong>on</strong> with sb; to bequite different, to argue, to break up, to fall out with sb, (dis)obey sb, not to be <strong>on</strong> speaking terms, make up;marital status: be engaged to sb, bride, bridegroom, marry sb, to be married tosb, to part/divorce with sb, widow, widower, bachelor, maiden,single2. Arranging words. What relati<strong>on</strong>s are they in?3. Words in usea. Family matters. Read the texts to discuss them.– I’m an <strong>on</strong>ly child. I think it is the most dreadful fate to be growing as an <strong>on</strong>lychild because all grown ups around you experiment <strong>on</strong> their unfortunate first born. Theyfind it absolutely impossible to allow their child to grow up naturally making his ownmistakes and quietly learning from them. What a pleasure it is to eat unripe apples withyour friends, but an <strong>on</strong>ly child will never have this pleasure because he can never escapefrom the close attenti<strong>on</strong> of the grown ups.– A good family is a family where everything, good or bad is shared. Family, tomy mind, is shared memory and a feeling of shelter and support. Wherever you goyou always look homeward. People who were unhappy in their childhood carry thosememories with them throughout all their lives.Answer the questi<strong>on</strong>s.1. Are you an <strong>on</strong>ly child?2. Is it good to be an <strong>on</strong>ly child, to your mind? If not, why?3. Do you get <strong>on</strong> well with your brothers or sisters?4. Do you share the housework in your family?b. Changing families – progress or disaster?1. Families have changed and I blame fast food. The family that eats together staystogether.2. Though we have our ups and downs we get a lot of support from our family.3. People from abroad often say about Armenian families “your family b<strong>on</strong>ds arestr<strong>on</strong>g, and there lies your wisdom.108