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A Multidisciplinary Research Journal - Devanga Arts College

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farm manager than Dick. However, this new freedom does not last. When Dick recovers from<br />

his illness, she is not allowed to play the active role.<br />

Being denied the active role and being unable to conform the acceptable role of wife<br />

and mother, Mary lapses once more in to passivity, taking on the voice of the suffering female,<br />

which she had watched her mother enact for many hears.<br />

The Loss of identity and a mundane existence result in psychological imbalance which<br />

can be set right only by good companionship. What she needs is a man stronger than her.<br />

Naturally, she begins hating her goalless husband.<br />

A turning point in Mary’s life comes, when Dick employs a Native Black servant,<br />

Moses at home. Having already been boldly resisted by Moses in the farm once, she is afraid of<br />

asserting her authority over him. To her surprise, Moses is a very obedient servant. When she<br />

begins to like his gentleness and his kind care towards her, she falls in love with him. She is now<br />

torn between her black attraction and her deeprooted contempt for the black natives nurtured in<br />

the whites from their childhood. She now suffers a mental-breakdown.<br />

Society and culture play a vital role in the life style of a man or a woman. Marriage is<br />

imposed upon Mary; against her will and pleasure she marries Dick, since people ridicule her.<br />

They comment on her age, her way of dressing and marriage prospects. An unmarried woman<br />

has to face social-harassment and in order to avoid this; she has to succumb to marriage, a<br />

socially accepted culture but alien to her mental make-up. Within her own society and culture,<br />

Mary is compelled to be an alien as she cannot conform herself to the dictates of the society. She<br />

has to sacrifice her independence.<br />

When Mary has settled down with Dick in the (bush) countryside, she suffers from the<br />

different kinds of conflicts at one and the same situation brought about by her faulty<br />

psychological developments from her past experience in her youth. She suffers from a conflict<br />

between her basic self concept to dislike a life on the countryside (as it is psychologically<br />

associated with her mother’s suppressed life of misery and her grief and poverty-stricken life)<br />

and her new social concept to accept it for the sake of her husband. Though she represses her<br />

basic hatred for a country life for some while, when Dick fails and is reduced to poverty as her<br />

father was, she develops hatred for the country life. As she wishes it is not possible to get away<br />

from her husband once for all, she suffers from a conflict between her ideal self to revolt against<br />

the dependent role of a woman and her basic self to accept the normal role of a Woman with her

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