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Be clear, this isn’t to discourage you. However, there’s no point in
worrying about statistics, how many men there are, or what you won’t have.
The point is, you get to skip the line.
You’re set apart from the rest because you have VIP access, but do you
know who you are?
Here’s the deal, before you get concerned with the amount of men there
are in the world and whether or not you’ll get one, you have to get right with
YOU and God. You have to discover your greatest self and there are three
keys to doing this.
#1 – Heal From Your Past
One of the core components to discover who you are is to heal from your
past. When you heal from your past, you’re able to get right with yourself and
God. However, when you haven’t healed from your past, no matter how much
you want love or think you’re ready for it, there will be a struggle. Not
healing from your past prevents you from moving forward, and when true
love comes your way, you’ll run. Of course, it sounds crazy to run from love
and not take advantage of it when it comes your way; however, when you
haven’t let go of past hurt and pain, it blocks you from being vulnerable.
Vulnerability is necessary for you to not just receive love, but also give it. It’s
the bridge that assists with nurturing the type of relationship God wants for
you. Lack of healing, will prevent you from accepting that love.
Next, when you haven’t healed, it blinds you. Ladies, hurt and pain blinds
you. If you’ve never acknowledged or properly resolved your past issues,
navigating through life will be as if you’re walking through your house in the
dark, or down the street with the broken glasses. You can’t see straight! This
skewed vision or lack of foresight causes you to end up with the wrong
person, in a bad relationship, or holding on to situations way longer than you
should. Being blind to nonsense is detrimental to your spiritual and emotional
sanctity.
Lastly, not healing from your past stops you from exuding positive energy.
Positive energy is necessary to attract the great relationship you seek. Let’s be
honest here, although you may be a good or a great woman, it doesn’t mean
you’re a positive one. If you’re not positive, trust and believe you will
struggle to attract and embrace the right man. However, you will have no
problem attracting men who only want sex and will waste your time. Those
guys don’t care about negative energy. Their only concern is how you look,
what they can get out of you, and what ways they can take advantage of you.
For the man who genuinely seeks a true relationship, when he sees or
senses the negative energy it will push him away and turn him off. Or, he’ll
assume he’s a bother, not welcomed in your presence, and will walk away. It’s
imperative you do what’s necessary to get the healing you need to embrace