427993469-The-Man-That-God-has-for-You

Introduction
Does God really have a man just for me? If so, where is he, when is he
coming and what in the world is taking his behind so long!
I’m sure that’s what you’re thinking and I understand how you feel.
Waiting on the man God has for you can be annoying, frustrating, and at
times, you feel hopeless. It’s not an easy path to walk. However, when done
right, it will without a doubt, provide the most benefit.
Does God really have a man just for you? Well to be honest, the answer is
yes and no.
No, because your actions can have an impact on whether you receive him
or not. The idea of a “soulmate,” a person you’re guaranteed to be with is
simply not true. We all make decisions in life, and unfortunately many people
make choices that block them from being with the person who’s best for
them.
Notice I said the person who’s best for them.
This is where I believe the term “soulmate” can be applied. It’s the yes
when determining if God really has a man just for you. God knows the people
who will walk into your life, as well as those who will align with your
purpose and have successful relationships with you. He’ll embrace any choice
you make. But what you believe is a good choice may not be God’s choice.
Many of you are familiar with the phrase “wait for your Boaz.” For those who
aren’t, here’s a quick explanation.
Boaz is a biblical character from the Book of Ruth who becomes Ruth’s
husband. Part of her story speaks to her experience of receiving a good man
and is often used as reference for single women who hope to one day marry.
The phrase itself is symbolic of saying, wait on the man God has for you.
Ruth’s story shows proof that when you move forward in obedience, patience,
and faith, you can receive the blessings that await you.
So again, does God have a man that is just for you?
Well, to be technical, if you read 1 Corinthians 11:19 KJV it states,
Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man.
Basically, you were created to be a blessing to a man who puts God first.
Not that this is your only purpose, but with regard to relationships, this is the
dynamic. Ultimately, you have to be able to recognize who is worthy of you
as their blessing and who’s your best fit. What I’m going to discuss in this
book will help you recognize the qualities that need to be in place before you
move forward with a man of interest, as well as a glimpse into the work that