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#2 – Finding Your Purpose
I know a lot of this sounds easier said than done; however, it still needs to
happen. If you don’t know where you’re going, you won’t know who belongs
with you on that path. Aside from that, you won’t find your true happiness.
In the previous section, I discussed how being positive, exuding that
energy, and healing yourself is essential.However, what contributes greatly to
this is being happy. You have to do things you enjoy and find a career that
speaks to your heart, so that you radiate this great energy. Although the
process of getting there may be a struggle, there’s a sense of peace that comes
from within when you know you're on the right path. The comfort of knowing
who you are and what you’re meant to do is essential. You don’t want to end
up in a relationship and realize the man you’re with doesn’t cosign, feel
comfortable, or agree with the path God has for you. That strain will set you
back and keep you from fully embracing who you are.
There are plenty of women, right now, who aren’t walking in their purpose
because they’re trying to walk with the wrong man. He is holding them back.
He became an anchor in their life. They’re stuck, and unable to progress the
way God intended.
And it’s not just the man in their lives.
The wrong friends, other negative associations in your life, your job, a
myriad of things that don’t belong can represent the anchor. In order for you
to know what fits, you must know where you’re supposed go. It’s important
that you to take the time to make sense of your purpose.
#3 – Know How to Hear God
A lot of women tell me they pray but, after further conversation, I notice
they aren’t listening. As you move forward in the book, I’ll address this more
in detail.
What’s your intent when you pray? Do you pray to make a request or to
vent? Do you pray in a moment of distress or frustration? Or do you ask a
question to receive an answer in your spirit? I get this isn’t easy for most.
There is so much to unpack with praying properly and how to hear God.
However, as a foundation, it’s important you get to a point where you enter
prayer with the intent to listen to what God says, because it’s how you’ll
receive directions.
Mutually, men and women are supposed be obedient to God; however,
this can’t happen without knowledge of the orders or directions He has for
you. We all have specific instructions. Sure, the Bible and other spiritual
leaders who aid you on your journey can give you guidance, and even me; but
to get down to the crux of what you’re supposed to do it needs to be specific
and from God. There will be instances where you’re told to go left, while