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However, you have to hold yourself accountable for situations you entertain
far longer than you should. This is where listening and talking to God
becomes essential, as I mentioned previously. Ask if you should even
entertain this man. Your intuition is just as essential because it tells you when
he’s not the guy and it’s time to go. The situation will not magically turn itself
around. It’s not going to work, move on. Doing this will help prevent you
from becoming so worn down with the dating process.
Worried about your clock ticking; then stop setting yourself up with a
specific age to accomplish certain things. Place your focus on doing what God
wants you to do and trust in His timing. I’m aware of the biological aspect
regarding pregnancy and the age where it begins to become more difficult,
and soon, not advised to make the attempt. This topic alone is delicate;
however, many of you may not be facing this yet. The more you become
antsy and focus on time, the less focus you place on what you should be doing
which would accelerate the time to accomplish your goals. You may get there
sooner than you think if you keep your eye on the prize. If you have
approached the time where it gets a bit uncertain, I don’t have a quick and
simple answer, but I will encourage you to pray. I’ve seen women accomplish
childbirth at ages they didn’t believe would work.
Each situation is different.
Whether it’s having babies or being married, don’t put unnecessary
pressure on yourself. Focus on what you need to do to reach the finish line.
Lastly, if you’re dealing with outside pressure, I could easily tell you to go
around and slap everyone, tell them to shut up and leave you alone; however,
that’s not going to fix anything or give you the peace you need.
I want you to know you have to be more transparent and honest when
people bring up the subject. Let them know how it makes you feel when they
continue to badger you. Don’t just shut down when they start going in your
ear, particularly when it’s parent or someone close to you. Don’t let them
ramble off and suck it up, despite knowing it bothers you and how it makes
you feel. You need to communicate how it’s getting under your skin, so they
understand the negative impact it has on you with the constant pressure and
badgering.
It’s important you express yourself in a positive and loving manner. They
need to understand they have to fall back. Also, when they ask why you’re
still single, give an honest answer (Need help? visit
www.thereasonwhyimsingle.com). When you give a BS answer, you only
open the door for them to keep pushing because they sense the BS. They’ll
rattle of, “oh, that doesn’t make any sense,” “no, that can’t be it,” and now
they want to push harder, dig further— be honest. I’m still working on some
things, be honest.
I haven’t healed from my past, be honest. You know what, I have someone