passed any hesitation. Either you’re going to do it, or not. If you’ve alreadyprayed and God gave you the answer to move forward, then you need to do itwith full force. You will have to open up and be vulnerable, this is what’srequired. Without it, you will sell yourself short.On many occasions, people have shared with me this piece of advice: awoman should be with a man who loves her more than she loves him.If you agree with this, then I sincerely want you to know that this is amisguided mindset to have. Not to be harsh, but quite frankly, it’s horribleadvice. It’s also a setup for disaster every, single, time. The idea ofquantifying who loves who more, indicates there’s a problem from the start.Again, the man God has for you will share a deep and genuine connection.If you speak to anyone who’s experienced this, they’ll tell you there’s no wayto compare who loves who more. They’re into each other, period. Theconnection is too strong for you or anyone to determine whose love is greaterfor the other. If there’s a distinction, the love between you and the man you’rewith is imbalanced and that’s not where you need to be.Love should be reciprocated. If you want to have a great love, you have toset the bar. You can’t enter a relationship waiting to see what they’re going todo, or if they’ll put forth all the effort. Because this particular man is sensitiveand attuned emotionally, he’ll realize you’re playing chess with his heart, notbeing receptive, and showing the effort he needs.Eventually, he’ll think you’re not serious, get tired and walk away. In turn,you’ll think he wasn’t serious because he didn’t stick around and deal withyour mess.No.He left because you kept holding back and it happens every single day.Don’t believe you should look for the man who loves you more. As wediscussed, there needs to be alignment, as well as a deep and genuineconnection. In order for you determine the alignment and connection, youhave to be open and vulnerable, as well as embrace the love you have for thisperson. All of this goes back to the root of addressing your issues. Have youresolved any lingering fears? Have you healed from your past and completedthe work within, for you to receive, accept, and nurture the great relationshipGod has for you?A whole man will want a whole woman.You have to work on being whole. It’s not about finding a man whocompletes you, it’s about completing yourself and receiving the man whocomplements you, as you complement him in return. That’s the relationshipthat will flourish and become something amazing.Be willing to give all of yourself and if you’re not ready, then you knowthere’s work to be done. Don’t be afraid of it. We all have room forimprovement and things we need to work on in life. We all have to embrace
learning, growing, evolving and healing because we’ve all been hurt. We’veall been damaged at some point. But there are those who work, resolve, andarise from it greater than ever, and those dwell in it.Make sure you’re not the one who’s dwelling in it.OceanofPDF.com
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