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you. He doesn’t want you in unhealthy and toxic relationships. He’s not trying
to set you up with any man who’s going to be consistently disrespectful to
you or mistreat you.
That’s not the case and it’s never normal. I understand what you saw, or
what your friends accept in their lives. I understand the impact of who your
mother, or whomever dealt with; Regardless it is unacceptable and you
shouldn’t expose yourself to it.
If you are, or ever find yourself in an abusive relationship, or have friends
who are in one, I want to share the number for the National Domestic
Abuse Hotline. I think it’s important for everyone to know where and who
they can reach out to for assistance if the situation arises. I know sometimes
it’s difficult to pull yourself out once you’re in and it’s even more difficult to
know who you can trust, because you may not be able to go to your family
and friends.
The number to the National
Domestic Abuse Hotline is:
1-800-799-7233
And to be clear, I don’t have any business partnerships, nor did they pay
me to mention them.
I’m telling you this because it’s a valuable resource and oftentimes, we
don’t know these resources exist and I want to make sure you have it.
As God’s daughter, as His child, He wants the best for you. Disrespect and
mistreatment does not belong there because that doesn’t glorify God. It
doesn’t speak to the greatness He wants to provide you and is not an example
of what He’s setting up for your life. Always be aware of this and when it’s
contrary to His blessings, remove it. Remove it and move on because there’s
something greater waiting around the corner.
Ihear a lot of rhetoric about building a man.
Being able to grow with him and be patient during his process, willing to
be with him at his lowest point, so on and so forth, blah, blah, blah.
And that’s not to be disrespectful; however, I know without a doubt, this is
directing many people in the wrong direction and it might be you.
Listen …
God didn’t make you to be a man’s crutch. You are not designed to carry a
man. Yes, I do believe in the idea of being supportive, being an inspiration
and motivation for a man to encourage and help him grow.
However, it should all be done as his friend—genuine
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