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For just as many women who love being with a man other women desire,
there’s just as many who fear it. It’s clear there is a deeper issue that needs to
be addressed and not simply think the solution is, “let me get with a guy who
just doesn’t look that good.”
It’s OK if the guy doesn’t fit the profile you would’ve desired if you made
your own list; however, if you are not genuinely attracted to him, you should
not move forward, and know this is not who God sent you. He wants your
relationship to glorify Him. How does this happen if there’s a lack of
affection, respect, effort, and desire?
This doesn’t reflect well upon God.
It makes people believe what He’s brought together look bad. No one will
want any of it, especially if you claim God had His hand on it.Trust and
believe,every relationship that consists of two people who’ve gone to God,
talked to Him and made sure that they were supposed to be together, is to
glorify Him, and be an example of the greatness God can provide.
Yes, it may come in an unexpected package, not fit the dynamic, or the
qualifications other people think you should shoot for; however, what will
speak loudest is your joy, happiness, positive energy, and desire for your
partner. That should be there and attraction is a big part of it.
While attraction is important at the beginning stages of a relationship, it is
even more important once you’re there. Understand that if you love your
partner, if you care about them, you will want to do things to feed, maintain,
and nurture the attraction. You cannot get into the mindset of they should just
accept me for me, love me anyway—no. If you love them, you should want to
look good for them. This goes for men and women. Any romantic
relationship, regardless of what it is, if you’re trying to be together in the long
run, then you want to embrace that.
That’s a future note, put a pin in it for when the time comes.
For now, remember that you will be attracted to the man God has for you.
If that doesn’t exist, don’t think you are expected to move forward. Always
remember to pray and ask God. Make sure this is the man that He wants you
to move forward with, so that you can go forth in peace and not with an
unsettled feeling of getting less than what you desire, or what makes you
happy. That’s not what God wants for your life or for your relationship.
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