427993469-The-Man-That-God-has-for-You

percent of those situations he’s not going to get it.
You’re going to shut it down.
Why?
Because most women aren’t looking for that type of situation. When you
do entertain it, more than likely it’s because you’ve become fatigued with
relationships, or you’re looking for something convenient and easy due to not
healing from previous disappointments. Although most times it’s not as
convenient as you’d like, but you want it because you’re scared to put
yourself out there and be vulnerable, so you look for a safer route to
companionship.
It’s your in between.
You avoid the a real, or whole relationship because you don’t want the
pain and disappointment you believe comes with it. So you allow yourself to
accept “fun,” easy, and convenient. Even when you think this dynamic is OK,
the impact is different when a man is straightforward about his true intentions.
When he says to you, I don’t see you as anything more than someone to “kick
it” with, that becomes a harder pill to swallow.
When you say it, when you tell him you see him as nothing more than
someone to kick it with, even if he likes you and wants more, you’re
comfortable with it because it gives you a false sense of control.
However, when he’s that straightforward, it doesn’t sit well with you.
Despite what women have claimed, most men realize when it comes to casual
sex and situations of “convenience,” being straightforward won’t get the
result they’re looking for in most situations. So what’s the alternative?
They lie.
I’m not validating the lie or excusing it in any shape or form. However, I
guarantee many have tried the straightforward approach and were shut down.
Men know they have a better chance of getting what they want by being
indirect and suggesting going with “the flow.” They will feed you whatever is
necessary to continue the situation and drag it along.
Listen, whenever a man wants to “go with the flow,” just be his friend.
Don’t get romantically tied up with a man who doesn’t know what he wants,
or claims not to know. When he figures it out, he can try again and you two
can discuss how to move forward. When you get caught up in that type of
situation, it’s a recipe for disaster. Accepting the lack of clarity and direction
only allows him to remain vague and drag out the situation even longer. It’s
not impossible for it to change; however, it’s extremely unlikely.
When you make decisions, think about what’s in your best interest and
what’s realistic. God does not want you to be romantically tied up with a man
who’s not committing to you. Tied to a man who’s doesn’t see you as his wife
or wants to make you his wife. Why would He want you to entertain a
situation like that?