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How to make friends with your<br />
inner saboteur<br />
Do you find that certain habits and behaviours get in<br />
the way of achieving your goals? This could be your<br />
inner saboteur at play, and it’s time to take a stand<br />
Writing | Sarah Thayer<br />
Illustrating | Rosan Magar<br />
Our inner saboteur is the<br />
part of us that routinely<br />
sabotages our desires,<br />
good intentions, and the plans we<br />
make for success or a better life.<br />
We may not immediately<br />
recognise this part of ourselves –<br />
or even know it’s there – but we<br />
can spot the repeating patterns<br />
of ‘failure’ we experience when<br />
we keep on trying to achieve the<br />
things that we want.<br />
Here, we’re taking you through<br />
how to point out, and cut out,<br />
self-sabotaging behaviour, so that<br />
you can begin to realise your full<br />
potential.<br />
1. Recognise your<br />
inner saboteur<br />
You really want to go to bed early,<br />
but you binge on another box set.<br />
You want to start saving money,<br />
but you end up paying for your<br />
friend again when you promised<br />
you’d stop doing that. You find a<br />
job you’d love to do, but you keep<br />
putting off the application until<br />
it’s too late. You want to harness<br />
a closer relationship with your<br />
partner, but you continue to<br />
argue over the same things.<br />
Sound familiar? All these<br />
scenarios could be your inner<br />
saboteur at work, trying to<br />
maintain your current identity,<br />
64 | <strong>April</strong> <strong>2021</strong> | happiful.com