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Success is a lasting wave - Focusing Your Energy Towards Success

In this book Heinz Meloth decribes how everybody can be successfull. He tells a lot about himself and and what tools he used for his personal success. All this methodes he applies also to those people who join his personal coaching sessions.

In this book Heinz Meloth decribes how everybody can be successfull.

He tells a lot about himself and and what tools he used for his personal success. All this methodes he applies also to those people who join his personal coaching sessions.

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After we found a starting point and a bas<strong>is</strong> for our<br />

work through a prepared speech, I asked her to tell<br />

me every word that she knew that began with the<br />

prefix “self-.” For the next step we would talk about<br />

her l<strong>is</strong>t. The next time we met she had her l<strong>is</strong>t<br />

without about twenty phrases that she had thought<br />

of. We couldn’t talk about it long, because she was<br />

very busy. She gave me the l<strong>is</strong>t and I asked her to<br />

next time bring a table with two columns: one with<br />

“IS” and the other with “SHOULD BE” written at<br />

the top. Then she should make a scale from 0-10. 0<br />

for unacceptable and 10 for excellent, as far as the<br />

inherent worth of the thing went. Under “IS” would<br />

be the worth of the situation she found herself in,<br />

which she would grade from 0-10. By our next<br />

appointment she had done th<strong>is</strong>.<br />

We talked intensively about her experience and I<br />

asked her to add a column for her priorities and to<br />

classify the five most important points on a scale<br />

from one to five.<br />

With th<strong>is</strong> method of self control through focusing<br />

one’s attention on oneself she accompl<strong>is</strong>hed the<br />

changes she was after in a relatively short amount of<br />

time.<br />

Here are the results: I received the first table from<br />

her with the following contents:

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