Walking together: Healing and hope for Colombian refugees
Walking together: Healing and hope for Colombian refugees
Walking together: Healing and hope for Colombian refugees
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CONTENTS<br />
FOREWORD .................................................................................................................................................................................................11<br />
INTRODUCTION .........................................................................................................................................................................................12<br />
CONTENTS AND METHOD .....................................................................................................................................................................13<br />
A NOTE ON TERMINOLOGY ...................................................................................................................................................................14<br />
History <strong>and</strong> Context of Forced Displacement in Colombia ................................................................................................17<br />
History .........................................................................................................................................................................................17<br />
Causes of displacement .......................................................................................................................................................21<br />
Characteristics of the Refugee Journey .....................................................................................................................................25<br />
A traumatic journey ................................................................................................................................................................25<br />
Identity changes: loss <strong>and</strong> reconstruction ......................................................................................................................27<br />
Church <strong>and</strong> identity ................................................................................................................................................................29<br />
Phases of adjustment ............................................................................................................................................................30<br />
Underst<strong>and</strong>ing <strong>and</strong> Appreciating our Differences ..................................................................................................................33<br />
Cultural competence..............................................................................................................................................................33<br />
Intercultural communication ...............................................................................................................................................34<br />
Conflict styles ............................................................................................................................................................................37<br />
Cultural tips ................................................................................................................................................................................39<br />
Cultural observations from <strong>Colombian</strong> <strong>refugees</strong> .........................................................................................................50<br />
Using interpreters ....................................................................................................................................................................53<br />
Promoting Restoration from Refugee Trauma .........................................................................................................................55<br />
Underst<strong>and</strong>ing refugee trauma ..........................................................................................................................................55<br />
Effects of refugee trauma on the individual ..................................................................................................................59<br />
Flashbacks ..................................................................................................................................................................................63<br />
Effects of refugee trauma on the family .........................................................................................................................64<br />
Returning to “normal” after traumatic events ...............................................................................................................69<br />
Talking about trauma..............................................................................................................................................................70<br />
What survivors want to say to clergy ..............................................................................................................................75<br />
Reconnection ............................................................................................................................................................................77<br />
Planning <strong>and</strong> Organizing <strong>for</strong> Action .............................................................................................................................................85<br />
Listening <strong>and</strong> accompaniment ...........................................................................................................................................86<br />
Narratives - the healing story ..............................................................................................................................................87<br />
Family strengthening ..............................................................................................................................................................89<br />
Serving others - identity building & healing ...................................................................................................................90<br />
Advocacy & peacebuilding ...................................................................................................................................................91<br />
Staying healthy .........................................................................................................................................................................92<br />
Helping the family feel at home ........................................................................................................................................95<br />
Preparing the church community to welcome <strong>and</strong> befriend the refugee family ............................................97<br />
MESSAGE FROM SHALOM ................................................................................................................................................................... 100<br />
MESSAGE FROM THE JUSTICE AND PEACE COMMITTEE ......................................................................................................... 102<br />
APPENDICES ............................................................................................................................................................................................ 103<br />
REFERENCES ............................................................................................................................................................................................ 109