Walking together: Healing and hope for Colombian refugees
Walking together: Healing and hope for Colombian refugees
Walking together: Healing and hope for Colombian refugees
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w a l k i n g<br />
t o g e t h e r<br />
61<br />
COMMON CONCERNS FOR SURVIVORS<br />
OF TORTURE & WAR TRAUMA<br />
Fears<br />
Fear <strong>for</strong> loved ones left behind<br />
Fear of experiencing trauma or its<br />
after-affects<br />
Fear of violence <strong>and</strong> guns<br />
Fear of losing control (over anger,<br />
aggressive impulses, anxiety<br />
symptoms, etc.)<br />
Fear of people in uni<strong>for</strong>ms<br />
or positions of authority<br />
Fear of certain objects, places,<br />
activities, sensations that remind<br />
one of the trauma<br />
Loss<br />
Loss of meaning, identity, cultural<br />
values <strong>and</strong> practices<br />
Sadness <strong>and</strong> grief over loss of<br />
homel<strong>and</strong>, family, home, treasures,<br />
community status, friends,<br />
hobbies, family l<strong>and</strong>, <strong>and</strong> work<br />
Unresolved grief <strong>and</strong> conflicted<br />
feelings about ambiguous<br />
losses (e.g., disappeared family,<br />
ambivalence about one day<br />
returning to home country)<br />
Spending holidays alone,<br />
missing familiar traditions<br />
Boredom <strong>and</strong>/or<br />
underemployment<br />
Dependency on others, including<br />
one’s children, <strong>for</strong> basic needs<br />
Dealing with health problems,<br />
injury, or disfigurement as a result<br />
of war or torture<br />
Distrust<br />
Sense of betrayal<br />
Difficulty trusting others<br />
Difficulty trusting oneself<br />
(one’s thoughts, feelings,<br />
perceptions.)<br />
Difficulty being touched<br />
Communication<br />
Challenges<br />
Lack of consistent news<br />
from home country<br />
Communication<br />
difficulties between<br />
Canada <strong>and</strong> Colombia<br />
(e.g. mail get’s opened<br />
or screened,<br />
calls can’t get through<br />
or are tapped)<br />
Difficulty learning English,<br />
especially if symptoms<br />
of PTSD or depression<br />
are present<br />
Difficulty remembering<br />
<strong>and</strong> keeping track<br />
of tasks, items,<br />
appointments,<br />
conversations<br />
<strong>Colombian</strong> Refugees<br />
in Canada share their<br />
concerns <strong>and</strong> challenges:<br />
“It’s not difficult <strong>for</strong> me to<br />
call my family from here,<br />
but it is difficult to listen to<br />
them <strong>and</strong> know that they<br />
still have problems. One of<br />
my sisters has cancer <strong>and</strong><br />
is very ill. I think I will<br />
never see her again.”<br />
- Adriana<br />
“When I need to ask a<br />
question to the children’s<br />
teachers, I use an online<br />
translator <strong>and</strong> my<br />
dictionary to write out<br />
the question, <strong>and</strong> I send it<br />
to the teachers, <strong>and</strong> they<br />
reply in writing. When<br />
my wife had to go to the<br />
doctor we did the same<br />
thing, I wrote down what<br />
she was feeling so the<br />
doctor could underst<strong>and</strong>.”<br />
- David<br />
“You have to start from<br />
zero in a country where<br />
the language is different,<br />
where everything is totally<br />
far removed from what<br />
you knew be<strong>for</strong>e. It’s either<br />
leave Colombia, or your<br />
life.”<br />
- Sara<br />
Common Concerns chart courtesy of the Center <strong>for</strong> Victims of Torture, 649 Dayton Ave.,<br />
St. Paul, MN 55104, www.cvt.org © Center <strong>for</strong> Victims of Torture