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Walking together: Healing and hope for Colombian refugees

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w a l k i n g<br />

t o g e t h e r<br />

31<br />

PHASES OF REFUGEE ADJUSTMENT<br />

Phase 1 (Arrival)<br />

SATISFACTION<br />

Phase 2 (Reality)<br />

Phase 3A (Negotiation)<br />

Phase 3B (Alienation)<br />

Phase 4A<br />

(Integration)<br />

Phase 4B<br />

(Marginalization)<br />

TIME IN COUNTRY<br />

Phases of Refugee Adjustment chart courtesy of the Center <strong>for</strong> Victims of Torture, 649 Dayton Ave., St. Paul,<br />

MN 55104, www.cvt.org © Center <strong>for</strong> Victims of Torture<br />

lead to feelings of confusion <strong>and</strong> disorientation. Feelings of numbness, anger, or even resentment can<br />

also be present in this stage.<br />

Phase Two generally occurs after three to six months <strong>and</strong> is called the Reality Phase. In this phase the<br />

refugee comes down from the “high” of the honeymoon as they realize that their desire <strong>for</strong> a quick<br />

adjustment has not been met. They become increasingly aware of the challenges that lie ahead <strong>and</strong> may<br />

begin to feel overwhelmed. Culture shock begins to set in <strong>and</strong> the reality of their losses is recognized.<br />

Conflicts may arise between generations in the family, with other refugee communities or between the<br />

family <strong>and</strong> the host community. Memories of traumatic events may occur (see Flashbacks, p 63), <strong>and</strong><br />

with them a sense of fear may return. In this stage<br />

<strong>refugees</strong> may experience difficulty concentrating<br />

in English class, detachment, short-term memory<br />

loss, fatigue or other physical symptoms such<br />

as headaches or stomachaches. The supportive,<br />

encouraging presence of the church in the lives of<br />

the <strong>refugees</strong> is crucial at this point; it can make all<br />

the difference in the path that the refugee family will<br />

take in the next stages.<br />

Phases Three <strong>and</strong> Four each have two optional<br />

paths: one gradually leading to Integration <strong>and</strong> the<br />

other leading toward Marginalization. Most <strong>refugees</strong><br />

that are sponsored by church communities are able<br />

to follow the path to integration, over time navigating<br />

their way to belonging in their new community.<br />

“I want to emphasize the importance of the role of<br />

churches in Canada. I remember one day I read<br />

on a Canadian five dollar bill ‘The winters of my<br />

childhood were long, long seasons. We lived in three<br />

places - the school, the church <strong>and</strong> the skating rink<br />

- but our real life was on the skating rink.’ It seems<br />

to me that this is a peaceful <strong>and</strong> humane country<br />

because of the presence of the church in families.<br />

Meeting with so many people at church, sharing<br />

<strong>together</strong> in different ways <strong>and</strong> singing beautifully -<br />

this brings us much life.”<br />

- Jose

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