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Cosmic Fusion<br />

One practical way to effectively deal with the negative emotions<br />

is to distinguish between them, so that they can be separated and<br />

sorted so they receive the attention they require and they become<br />

manageable. We may see them like our children who each have<br />

their specific needs. We can give to each one the particular attention<br />

they deserve. To deal with them all at once is too difficult and<br />

leads easily to discouragement and a sense of powerlessness<br />

and defeat. In such a way you more easily work with them.<br />

For each of us, the relations among and between positive and<br />

negative emotions is a unique one. So are our needs and styles to<br />

deal with them, depending on the culture we have grown up in, our<br />

different kinds of education and the ways we have responded to<br />

them and have evolved. So we will need to rely on and develop our<br />

own imaginativeness to use the formulas creatively so that they<br />

may be helpful rather than become an obstacle, as we apply them<br />

mechanically. We need to learn to feel what is good for us, and<br />

what helps us to be centered, in balance and at peace with ourselves.<br />

Practice of Humor and the Humor of Practice<br />

Crucial to our practice is a sense of humor and playfulness: to<br />

avoid the Fusion Practice becoming a reproduction of old patterns<br />

in a new form, as we use it as a device to track down our weaknesses<br />

in a spirit of self-condemnation. Humor is essential for balancing<br />

the energies of and in our organs. Humor is the great regulator<br />

which helps us to look with a sense of relativity, playfulness<br />

and lightness at ourselves. It is an expression of the compassionate<br />

energy of the heart which helps to look with a sense of detachment<br />

at ourselves and not to take ourselves so seriously that it<br />

becomes difficult to relax and be a witness rather than a severe<br />

judge.<br />

With little humor, the Fusion Practice would become an accounting<br />

practice in which we record the drawbacks which prevent us<br />

from advancing. In focusing on the negative as if it were evil, we<br />

lose sight of our creative potential and prevent ourselves to gradually<br />

free ourselves from old patterns. Without humor we see no<br />

way out except by relying on some external power or force which<br />

only further undermines our own original power of self-transformation.<br />

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