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Facilitation Skills<br />
a common problem with people who work cutting and storing tobacco<br />
plants. The freshly cut tobacco secretes nicotine, a highly toxic alkaloid<br />
that is absorbed through the skin. It causes fainting, weakness, and<br />
sometimes death. But, according to some people, dying from tobacco<br />
sickness is not really a problem because it has been happening for over<br />
two hundred years.<br />
When you observe someone denying what is in front of them, ask<br />
them to provide sensory evidence. Barring this, ask them to explain the<br />
causal relationships that support their views. This will usually help them<br />
overcome the misconception, but don’t be surprised if they cannot<br />
offer an explanation. Denial is an incredibly strong aspect of the human<br />
condition.<br />
Time as a Cause<br />
Don’t use time as a cause. Listen closely to our excuses. The cause is<br />
often given as time. We hear examples of this logic in daily conversation:<br />
n The reason my car looks so bad is because it is old.<br />
n I couldn’t finish my project because I ran out of time.<br />
n I was late to work because time got away from me.<br />
n We would have won the game if only there was more time.<br />
Things happen in time not because of time. The car does not look old<br />
because of time, nor is it worn out because of time. It is worn out because<br />
of use and the second law of thermodynamics—entropy, the natural law<br />
that dictates everything in the universe is trying to obtain it lowest energy<br />
state. There are many natural processes, such as friction and radiation that<br />
cause wear, and they happen in time not because of it.<br />
Dealing with Group Interaction<br />
As you go through the Square One Loop in a group setting, you will<br />
find four general types of interaction.<br />
The Proverbial Storyteller<br />
The storyteller will want to take you back to the scene of the problem<br />
and tell you all the people involved or give you a history lesson on why<br />
things are done the way they are. While this is often interesting and even<br />
informative, don’t let them take control of the process. Listen carefully to<br />
what they are saying, and the first time you hear the answer to your why<br />
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