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Dear <strong>First</strong> Partner Siebel Newsom,<br />

Being a mother, I am sure that you underst<strong>and</strong> the unconditional love that comes<br />

with motherhood. It does not even matter what the age of our children are, we will<br />

forever love them regardless of the mistakes that they make in their lives. Well, my<br />

daughter, Jamila Ward, made a mistake that can never be corrected. Jamila trusted<br />

her “boyfriend” who gave her a fatal pill that contained fentanyl.<br />

Jamila is a mother of three; Jordan, Jaden <strong>and</strong> Daily, who are now without the love<br />

of their lives due to a fatal mistake. Jamila was <strong>and</strong> will always be my cheerleader,<br />

my best friend, <strong>and</strong> my only daughter.<br />

Jamila was a lover of life, <strong>and</strong> adventure. She loved the water, <strong>and</strong> she would often,<br />

when the weather permitted, raft down the Sacramento River. She would say that<br />

being on the water made her feel free. She also loved to hike <strong>and</strong> take her children<br />

on adventures in nature along the California coastline. Jamila was my travel buddy,<br />

as well as my “person” to go to when I had a funny moment or a secret. Jamila<br />

never used a drug in her life. She had her children at a very young age <strong>and</strong> spent<br />

her time raising them <strong>and</strong> working to make a life for herself <strong>and</strong> her children. I spoke<br />

to my daughter for the last time on January 1st, 2021, making plans for her to come<br />

<strong>and</strong> spend the rest of the weekend with me. We planned on having a “slumber<br />

party,” watching movies <strong>and</strong> making a New Years dinner to celebrate the New Year.<br />

Early Saturday morning Jamila’s friend who was with her at the time of her death,<br />

called me screaming that my daughter was dead.<br />

I was awakened from my sleep to someone screaming over the phone that my only<br />

daughter was dead, how could I ever underst<strong>and</strong> what was being said to me, I<br />

couldn’t.<br />

I asked what happened to my daughter, <strong>and</strong> I was told that she <strong>and</strong> a friend were<br />

drinking alcohol <strong>and</strong> had taken a Percocet. I did not underst<strong>and</strong> what was being<br />

said to me because I knew my daughter <strong>and</strong> I wondered why she had taken a<br />

Percocet. I advised her friend to call 911 immediately. Still sitting in shock from<br />

what I had just been told, I thought to myself “maybe she is not dead, maybe they<br />

can save her by administering CPR on her. But I was mistaken, my daughter was<br />

gone.<br />

On Valentines Day of 2021, I received a phone call from the coroner’s office with the<br />

news that fentanyl was found in my daughter’s toxicology report. Jamila turned 39<br />

November 24th, 2020, <strong>and</strong> died January 2nd, 2021, after taking one pill that she<br />

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