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Dear <strong>First</strong> <strong>Lady</strong> Sarah Stitt,<br />

Hello, my name is C<strong>and</strong>ace Lockner. I lost my son, Dylan, to fentanyl poisoning on<br />

December 20, 2021. He was 23 years old <strong>and</strong> my youngest son. He was a hard worker<br />

<strong>and</strong> loved his family <strong>and</strong> friends. He was so full of life <strong>and</strong> very loyal. On the day that he<br />

was born, he had to fight for his first breaths. From then on, he has always been a fighter<br />

<strong>and</strong> strong, never giving up.<br />

After graduating from high school, he moved to Texas <strong>and</strong> went into the oilfield. He<br />

worked long hours, <strong>and</strong> always made sure that his family <strong>and</strong> friends were taken care of.<br />

After several years of this, he moved back home to start a new chapter in his life. He got<br />

into construction where he quickly moved up, becoming foreman for the company that he<br />

was working with. He loved fishing, hunting, <strong>and</strong> being in the mountains with his friends,<br />

living life to the fullest <strong>and</strong> never letting anything scare him. He was always ready to try<br />

something new.<br />

He would hang out with his friends on the weekends or have cookouts with his family,<br />

always playing with his niece <strong>and</strong> nephew. Some weekends he would have bonfires while<br />

hanging out with his buddies drinking some beers, but always making sure that everybody<br />

was safe <strong>and</strong> taken care of.<br />

I remember our last Thanksgiving together in November of 2021, when he had this big<br />

cookout. He said to me, “I love you, Madre`. I just know that if anything happens to me,<br />

my friends will always be there to take care of you.” That was the last day that I saw my<br />

son alive.<br />

He had been injured in a motorcycle wreck several months prior <strong>and</strong> was prescribed pain<br />

medication by the doctor. One night, after he had run out of pain medication, he was<br />

hurting, so one of his friends gave him what he thought was a pain pill, but it was fentanyl.<br />

Dylan’s death has left such a big hole in my heart, as well as his family <strong>and</strong> friends. I miss<br />

my baby so much. I don’t ever want to see another family go through this pain <strong>and</strong><br />

heartache. Something has got to be done.<br />

We are asking that you please consider helping us to build a Memorial Wall for our loved<br />

ones so they may be remembered.<br />

Thank you for your time,<br />

C<strong>and</strong>ace Lockner – Dylan’s mom; forever 23<br />

Tulsa, Oklahoma<br />

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