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Dear <strong>First</strong> <strong>Lady</strong> Sarah Stitt,<br />

My name is Jessica Kerrigan. I lost my 22-year-old son, Dakota, to fentanyl poisoning on<br />

August 13, 2022.<br />

I was blessed with twin boys at a very young age, <strong>and</strong> Dakota was the oldest. You might<br />

say, we were all growing up at the same time. As a young mother, life wasn’t easy, but we<br />

all did the best we could.<br />

When Dakota was 14, he was involved in a hit <strong>and</strong> run accident. They lost him three times<br />

as they worked to stabilize him. He suffered extensive injuries, including brain trauma,<br />

which resulted in PTSD, neurological issues, <strong>and</strong> age regression. It also meant no more<br />

sports. That was a big blow. Dakota was an athlete, st<strong>and</strong>ing 6’ 3” <strong>and</strong> weighing 230<br />

pounds. Adjustments in Dakota’s life had to be made. To his credit, he managed to<br />

successfully carve out a new way of life for himself, despite his limitations. I was a very<br />

proud mom, <strong>and</strong> he was a very happy boy.<br />

Dakota was my extrovert who always kept us laughing <strong>and</strong> entertained. He was also my<br />

biggest cheerleader <strong>and</strong> fan. He tried to protect me his entire life. Regrettably, I couldn’t<br />

protect him.<br />

The night Dakota died we had a serious <strong>and</strong> meaningful conversation about getting him<br />

into treatment the next day. Tomorrow was going to be a big day <strong>and</strong> a new start. To my<br />

everlasting horror, for Dakota, tomorrow never came. I found him the next morning<br />

deceased in his bed; an image I will be haunted by for the rest of my life.<br />

My house is so quiet now. I miss the chaos of my funny boy. Sometimes, the silence is<br />

deafening.<br />

Please consider memorializing Dakota, <strong>and</strong> all of those lost to fentanyl in Oklahoma, on a<br />

Memorial Wall.<br />

Thank you for your time,<br />

Jessica Kerrigan – Dakota’s mom; forever 22<br />

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma<br />

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