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Dear Governor Hobbs,<br />

My name is Jerel McDonald. I lost my only daughter, Elanor Mae McDonald, last year.<br />

Ellie was 18 years old when she passed away on August 6, 2022, from Fentanyl<br />

poisoning. Ellie had one sibling, her older brother Joe, who is now left as an only child.<br />

Ellie was the light of any room. She made friends easily <strong>and</strong> delighted her friends,<br />

family, teachers <strong>and</strong> anyone she spent time with. She was a talented gymnast,<br />

horsewoman <strong>and</strong> student. She was fiercely loyal, <strong>and</strong> a lover of all animals <strong>and</strong> small<br />

children. If she saw a stray dog, nothing else could be done until we stopped <strong>and</strong> tried<br />

to rescue it. Whenever we saw a young child, her eyes would light up <strong>and</strong> she would<br />

jokingly ask if we could kidnap them. I wish you could have met her; she was the light of<br />

my life.<br />

When Ellie died, friends traveled from across the country to pay their respects <strong>and</strong> told<br />

stories of their love for her. One friend, who suffered from suicide ideation, told us that<br />

Ellie was the reason she had decided to live. She had that kind of impact on the people<br />

she met. Unfortunately, Ellie was very social <strong>and</strong> had more than the usual<br />

experimentation <strong>and</strong> fascination with drugs in her teens. She was introduced to what<br />

she thought was a prescription pill (Percocet) by a boyfriend <strong>and</strong> became hooked. It<br />

wasn’t Percocet, it was Fentanyl. We managed to save her that time <strong>and</strong> get her help.<br />

She was clean for two years, worked her butt off to graduate from high school on time<br />

<strong>and</strong> managed to get accepted to the University of Arizona. She wanted to become a<br />

therapist <strong>and</strong> help others who had experienced mental health issues <strong>and</strong> addiction.<br />

Unfortunately, whether due to stress, peer pressure or the lure of the most addictive<br />

substance on the planet, she relapsed.<br />

One horrible morning, just 10 days before she was to start at the U of A, her brother <strong>and</strong><br />

mother found her in her bed, already cold. She had taken a fake Percocet <strong>and</strong> died<br />

during the night just across the hall from us. I had to receive the phone call <strong>and</strong> rush<br />

home to the worst scene any parent can imagine. Ten horrible months later, we’re still<br />

trying to put our broken lives back together.<br />

Life will never be the same for our family. My son will never be an uncle, Ellie will never<br />

get to graduate from college, get married or have children. Every day, I wake up like<br />

Groundhog Day <strong>and</strong> try to figure out how to live in a world where my daughter no longer<br />

exists. Ellie <strong>and</strong> the thous<strong>and</strong>s of Arizonans who have become victims to this horrible<br />

drug, over 2,000 last year alone, are victims of what amounts to a trans-national<br />

terrorism attack. Will you help honor the victims by putting up an Arizona Memorial Wall<br />

in their honor?<br />

Sincerely,<br />

Jerel McDonald<br />

Flagstaff, Arizona 17

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