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Dear <strong>First</strong> <strong>Lady</strong> Casey DeSantis,<br />

It is hard to put into so few words what a wonderful person Patrick “Quinn” Hofmann<br />

was. Quinn had one brother <strong>and</strong> three sisters. Quinn was a protector, the fixer, <strong>and</strong><br />

the kindest soul you could ever meet! He loved life, his family, <strong>and</strong> he wasn’t<br />

prepared to die at age 38. Quinn was an Army Iraqi War Veteran, who served his<br />

country with honor for 9 years. He loved the military life <strong>and</strong> the camaraderie that<br />

came along with it. Due to an injury while in Iraq, Quinn was offered a medical<br />

discharge. He was convinced this was the best for him. When he left the Army <strong>and</strong><br />

began transitioning back into the civilian world, he lost the camaraderie he once had<br />

with his military family. He began a complicated <strong>and</strong> difficult journey to find that<br />

same sense of belonging; he wanted that unbreakable bond. Instead of friendship,<br />

time after time he fell in with the wrong crowd <strong>and</strong> relationships. Quinn had injured<br />

his back during his time in service <strong>and</strong> his injuries were considered inoperable <strong>and</strong><br />

would worsen with time. He was prescribed a narcotic pain medication to help with<br />

his pain. A few years into the medication making his pain tolerable, stricter<br />

prescription laws were passed. The VA could no longer prescribe the medication he<br />

had become so dependent on using. He tried to deal with the pain, but he ended up<br />

turning to the streets to buy these street pills. With the back injury coupled with<br />

PTSD, he did not know how to function without a way of numbing himself. These<br />

drugs gave him the ability to exist in his own world without the stress, pain, <strong>and</strong><br />

anxiety he felt without them. There were many sleepless nights for our family during<br />

his active addiction. We knew that he loved us, that he didn’t want to die -- but we<br />

also knew his addiction was more powerful than anything we were capable of<br />

fighting on our own.<br />

After an arrest for some stolen goods, I was able to get him into a court in this area<br />

called “VA Court”. This court was established to get veterans back on track.<br />

Eventually, as Quinn’s mother I pleaded with the VA Court to place Quinn into a<br />

residential rehab <strong>and</strong> work towards a recovery rather than just punishment time <strong>and</strong><br />

time again. Luckily the judge agreed, <strong>and</strong> Quinn was placed in a 17-month<br />

residential program to get him into recovery called Pathways for Change. This was<br />

the miracle we were ALL waiting for!<br />

Now, let’s fast forward. Quinn was clean for nearly 3 years after completing his<br />

program. He was healthy, he was clean, <strong>and</strong> his life was heading in the direction he<br />

always wanted it to. Everything was finally falling into place for him, <strong>and</strong> we were all<br />

so proud of him! There were bumps in the road, yes – because Quinn was still the<br />

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