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Dear <strong>First</strong> <strong>Lady</strong> Teresa Parson,<br />

I am an ambassador for the <strong>Dr</strong>ug Epidemic Memorial Wall campaign. I lost my first-born son,<br />

Christian, on February 21, 2022, at the age of 23. His cousin found him deceased in the<br />

apartment they shared. Christian died from fentanyl poisoning. Christian’s family <strong>and</strong> friends<br />

mourn the loss of his daily presence in our lives.<br />

Christian was a kind, loving man. As a child we constantly heard from others how well-mannered<br />

<strong>and</strong> kind he was. We were proud parents. He was charismatic, a talented musician, a comedian,<br />

an animal lover, a creative cook, fisherman, a loyal friend, loving son, <strong>and</strong> the best big brother. I<br />

miss his laugh <strong>and</strong> his big bear hugs. He had a smile that would light up any room <strong>and</strong> a laugh so<br />

contagious you couldn’t help but laugh alongside him when you heard it.<br />

He was a big brother to Grant, 19, Eli, 14, Max, 12, <strong>and</strong> Claire, 11. He was enrolled in college<br />

before his passing <strong>and</strong> was eager to get his prerequisites finished so he could enroll in the nursing<br />

program. There are no adequate words to describe the loss his family <strong>and</strong> friends are<br />

experiencing. The grief at times is unspeakable, unbearable, <strong>and</strong> unstoppable. My son suffered<br />

trauma as a child in the form of sexual abuse. He repressed all memories of the event. He was<br />

later misdiagnosed with ADHD when he was suffering from PTSD. As long as there are people<br />

who suffer from trauma, we will have desperate people searching for anything to help make the<br />

suffering subside. I believe we need to take a serious look at treating trauma in individuals rather<br />

than fighting the exhausting, seemingly unwinnable war on drugs.<br />

We need to address the grieving of all these families. I’m hopeful, as a mother <strong>and</strong> gr<strong>and</strong>mother,<br />

you will underst<strong>and</strong> the urgency I, <strong>and</strong> countless other mothers in Missouri, feel towards ending<br />

this epidemic, educating our children, <strong>and</strong> addressing the mental health of substance users as<br />

well as those in grief.<br />

Would you assist us in finding a permanent location for a <strong>Dr</strong>ug Epidemic Memorial Wall within our<br />

State Capitol complex? We have created two memorial walls, one with photos <strong>and</strong> one with<br />

names. These digital walls <strong>and</strong> albums update automatically. We would also like the photos<br />

displayed in hard copy format.<br />

Missouri moms would love to meet with you & work to prevent this from happening ever again.<br />

Sincerely,<br />

Shanna Glore – Christian’s mom; forever 23<br />

Farmington, Missouri<br />

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