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would be available (in<strong>for</strong>mation about the other counsellor’s schedules should be<br />

readily available).<br />

♦PROBLEM: A counsellor is not able to establish rapport with the<br />

caller, and it is unclear why. Like the situation above, the counsellor should<br />

acknowledge the caller’s discom<strong>for</strong>t and try to discover the reason behind it.<br />

(Ex: “It appears that you are not com<strong>for</strong>table speaking with me. What can I do<br />

to make this more com<strong>for</strong>table <strong>for</strong> you?”). If possible, the counsellor should<br />

then use the caller’s response to improve the rapport. If this is not possible, the<br />

counsellor should offer to transfer the caller to someone else or invite the caller<br />

to call back at another time.<br />

♦PROBLEM: A counsellor and caller know each other. In general, it is<br />

not appropriate <strong>for</strong> a counsellor to counsel someone that s/he knows. It can be<br />

difficult to know <strong>for</strong> certain over the phone whether or not a counsellor and a<br />

client know each other, however. Sometimes a counsellor may recognise a caller<br />

but the caller may not recognise the counsellor. Sometimes a caller may<br />

recognise the counsellor, and ask <strong>for</strong> his/her full name in order to verify this fact.<br />

In either case, the counsellor should not reveal his/her full name. S/he should<br />

explain to the caller that it would be best <strong>for</strong> him/her to speak with another<br />

counsellor who would be better equipped to handle his/her situation and proceed<br />

to transfer the call. If no other counsellor is available, the counsellor can take the<br />

call, but s/he should be sure to respect the caller’s confidentiality (as is the case<br />

with all calls).<br />

♦PROBLEM: A caller asks <strong>for</strong> in<strong>for</strong>mation that the counsellor does not<br />

know. It is perfectly okay <strong>for</strong> a counsellor to say, “I don’t know” if s/he does<br />

not know the answer to a question. Counsellors are not expected to know<br />

everything, and they should in<strong>for</strong>m the callers that they might not have all of the<br />

in<strong>for</strong>mation that they are seeking, but that they will try to find it. If the<br />

in<strong>for</strong>mation can be obtained quickly from the YEF HIV/AIDS Hotline staff, then<br />

the counsellor can put the caller on hold. If it will take more time to find the<br />

in<strong>for</strong>mation, however, then the counsellor can ask the client to call back later.<br />

♦PROBLEM: A caller talks continuously or inappropriately. If the caller<br />

talks non-stop without giving the counsellor a chance to speak, or the caller does<br />

not seem to be making sense, the counsellor should try to redirect the<br />

conversation. This can be done through interrupting the caller in a polite way,<br />

such as stopping him/her to summarise what s/he said and make sure that it has<br />

been understood. (Ex: “Let me just stop you <strong>for</strong> a minute to make sure that I<br />

have understood what you have told me….).<br />

♦PROBLEM: A caller becomes offensive or aggressive. Callers may use<br />

offensive language or speak to the counsellor in a threatening way, especially if<br />

Session 7- Pg. 3

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