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•Talk to others<br />

Share your feelings of stress with someone you can trust. Talking about stress<br />

can make you feel better, and it may help you to look at your situation<br />

differently.<br />

•Write in a journal<br />

Writing your feelings down on paper is an excellent way to release stress. This<br />

can also help you to develop a plan <strong>for</strong> improving your situation.<br />

•Breathing<br />

Breathing deeply and slowly helps your body to relax. Expand your abdomen<br />

while inhaling, count to four, and then exhale.<br />

Long-term solutions<br />

These suggestions are helpful <strong>for</strong> dealing with stress in the short term. To deal<br />

with stress in the long term, you must choose one of the following three options:<br />

•Change the situation<br />

•Change how you react to the situation; or<br />

•Change how you look at the situation.<br />

Relaxation Exercise<br />

This exercise will help participants to relax their muscles and release immediate<br />

stress. Be<strong>for</strong>e conducting the exercise, make sure that the room is quiet and<br />

that there are no distractions.<br />

The following exercise is an example of "Progressive Relaxation." Progressive<br />

relaxation involves first tensing your muscles and then letting the tension go.<br />

You might wonder why we first tense the muscles. Imagine a pendulum. In order<br />

<strong>for</strong> you to get the pendulum to swing furthest to one side, you have to pull it far<br />

along the other. Similarly, to relax your muscles, it can help to tense them first.<br />

As well, you become more aware of what each muscle feels like, where it is<br />

located in your body and what to look <strong>for</strong> in the future when you are trying to<br />

determine whether muscles are relaxed or tense.<br />

1. Find a com<strong>for</strong>table position in a chair with good back support. You may also<br />

do this lying down.<br />

2. Loosen any restrictive clothing or jewellery that you are wearing.<br />

3. Close your eyes. Begin to focus on the feelings inside your body - mentally<br />

scan your entire body, from head to toe, and note any signs of tension that there<br />

may be.<br />

Session 10 – Pg. 4

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