The Common Ground Network for Life and Choice Manual

CHAPTER SEVEN:
ADAPTING THE DIALOGUE MODEL TO
OTHER ISSUES
The dialogue model explained in Chapters Three and Four is addressed to the topic of
abortion. However, this model can be used with other conflicts where key issues involve nonnegotiable
values, beliefs and identity. The common ground dialogue approach is applicable
whenever there is a need or desire for: developing a deeper understanding of the conflict on the
part of the adversaries; reducing tension and hostility that has the potential for violence and/or
other destructive outcomes; getting beyond stereotyping and misrepresentation to real people and
problems; and uncovering areas of overlapping concerns and goals. It provides a method for
achieving meaningful communication where the intensity of feeling and depth of conviction
create fear about even attempting conversation.
The Appendices in this chapter share an application of the model that the authors used in
a dialogue relating to homosexuality, a topic at the center of a bitter conflict within a religious
institution. There was a desire to inject dialogue into the heated environment in order to better
illuminate what was in dispute and to give people a chance to consider the stakes involved in the
conflict, namely, the unity of the church.
A few general points should be made about adapting the dialogue process.
First, designing an effective process requires knowledge of more than dialogue
methodology. It takes a level of understanding of the issue in conflict, and the conflicting
perspectives. Therefore it is key to involve a planning or consulting group composed of people