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Personality disorder is also linked in the public mind with<br />
criminality and dangerousness; in fact, the majority of<br />
people with difficulties associated with personality disorder<br />
are not violent or criminal.<br />
REFLECTING ON EXPERIENCES OF STIGMA AND<br />
DISCRIMINATION:<br />
Many of us understand what it is like to be stigmatised<br />
from our own experience in society.<br />
Are you...<br />
- Black or from a minority ethnic group?<br />
- Lesbian, gay or bisexual?<br />
- Transgendered?<br />
- Female?<br />
- Disabled?<br />
- Religious?<br />
- Ever been unemployed/needed benefits?<br />
“I was treated less<br />
sympathetically because<br />
of personality disorder.<br />
<strong>The</strong>y believe it’s not<br />
mental illness but<br />
something you’ve<br />
brought on yourself.”<br />
“I think the diagnosis is<br />
saying ‘trouble maker’.<br />
You’re ignored. People<br />
can be hostile. You’re<br />
not taken seriously.<br />
People don’t believe<br />
there’s anything wrong<br />
with you if you’ve got<br />
personality disorder.”<br />
It takes considerable emotional resilience to deal with<br />
people making judgements and assumptions about you.<br />
For someone who already feels vulnerable and like an<br />
outsider who does not ‘fit’, as many people with personality<br />
disorder do, then it can be very difficult to face stigma.<br />
“I became a ‘services leper’. I was told by the<br />
psychiatrist I had been blacklisted. After the<br />
diagnosis was made I felt excluded. <strong>The</strong>re was<br />
a general unwillingness to help and I was<br />
refused treatment.”<br />
Personality disorder has been<br />
called ‘a very sticky label’. When<br />
it comes to personality, people<br />
often assume that we cannot<br />
change,‘the leopard can’t<br />
change its spots’. Actually, we<br />
know that people can change<br />
very considerably, sometimes<br />
through professional help, but<br />
also through forming helpful<br />
relationships, having good<br />
experiences, and through the<br />
passage of time. But, once<br />
someone has that label, it can<br />
be difficult to persuade others<br />
that they have changed.<br />
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