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Personality disorder is also linked in the public mind with<br />

criminality and dangerousness; in fact, the majority of<br />

people with difficulties associated with personality disorder<br />

are not violent or criminal.<br />

REFLECTING ON EXPERIENCES OF STIGMA AND<br />

DISCRIMINATION:<br />

Many of us understand what it is like to be stigmatised<br />

from our own experience in society.<br />

Are you...<br />

- Black or from a minority ethnic group?<br />

- Lesbian, gay or bisexual?<br />

- Transgendered?<br />

- Female?<br />

- Disabled?<br />

- Religious?<br />

- Ever been unemployed/needed benefits?<br />

“I was treated less<br />

sympathetically because<br />

of personality disorder.<br />

<strong>The</strong>y believe it’s not<br />

mental illness but<br />

something you’ve<br />

brought on yourself.”<br />

“I think the diagnosis is<br />

saying ‘trouble maker’.<br />

You’re ignored. People<br />

can be hostile. You’re<br />

not taken seriously.<br />

People don’t believe<br />

there’s anything wrong<br />

with you if you’ve got<br />

personality disorder.”<br />

It takes considerable emotional resilience to deal with<br />

people making judgements and assumptions about you.<br />

For someone who already feels vulnerable and like an<br />

outsider who does not ‘fit’, as many people with personality<br />

disorder do, then it can be very difficult to face stigma.<br />

“I became a ‘services leper’. I was told by the<br />

psychiatrist I had been blacklisted. After the<br />

diagnosis was made I felt excluded. <strong>The</strong>re was<br />

a general unwillingness to help and I was<br />

refused treatment.”<br />

Personality disorder has been<br />

called ‘a very sticky label’. When<br />

it comes to personality, people<br />

often assume that we cannot<br />

change,‘the leopard can’t<br />

change its spots’. Actually, we<br />

know that people can change<br />

very considerably, sometimes<br />

through professional help, but<br />

also through forming helpful<br />

relationships, having good<br />

experiences, and through the<br />

passage of time. But, once<br />

someone has that label, it can<br />

be difficult to persuade others<br />

that they have changed.<br />

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