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Beyond Decriminalization: Sex-work, Human Rights and a New ...

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PIVOT LEGAL SOCIETYA. I guess it should have something to do with the sex trade <strong>work</strong>er. It’s the circumstancesof what’s going on.- female off-street in-call sex <strong>work</strong>erWorking out of the family home<strong>Sex</strong> <strong>work</strong>ers expressed concerns about a parent who sees clients in the family home; some participantsfelt this would be unacceptable, while others thought that it might be a viable choice for sex<strong>work</strong>ers with children. Some participants suggested that a double st<strong>and</strong>ard is at play whereby sex<strong>work</strong>ers who bring clients into their home are frowned on, while parents who bring several differentsexual partners into their home are not.A. One point. Just if the child sees that, <strong>and</strong> like, sees the sex trade <strong>work</strong>er, <strong>work</strong>ing?Then yeah, that should be considered [in custody decisions]. But other than that? No.A. Like the – the guy coming into the house <strong>and</strong> then going into the bedroom. And thenof course, they would hear what was going on. So on, so forth. Whether they saw theact or not, just – I mean, kids absorb everything, right?A. And that would really hurt them. Because they – they would never underst<strong>and</strong> that.A. If it was – was kind-of – <strong>work</strong>ing outside of the home, then no, that should haveabsolutely nothing to do with . . . child custody. But if it is in the home, <strong>and</strong> the childsees it, yes it should have.A. But – a guy can so easily get child custody by getting the kid to lie about what thekid’s mother – its mother was doing.A. And I mean, okay. I thought about this ‘cuz it comes up every meeting <strong>and</strong> I’malways for… like in my heart, I am in agreement with it <strong>and</strong> how it should beaway from the kids but then all of a sudden my brain kicks in <strong>and</strong> I’m going wait aminute, is this two faced or what? If we’re trying to say it shouldn’t be stigmatized butat the same time we’re saying, kids shouldn’t see it, I think there’s some stigma withthat.A. That’s . . . the same thing as like having a boyfriendA. Many boyfriends coming in <strong>and</strong> the child will become gradually messed up, becauseof that. Just seeing different boyfriends coming in. So I am sure that would happenwhether they’re getting paid or not.A. It depends on how you can be present to your child when you’re having to <strong>work</strong> in thebuilding. All those things sort-of factor in, y’know?A. And saying that the child shouldn’t be there <strong>and</strong> it shouldn’t be affected, is reallytalking from the lap of luxury.A. Yes well there’s the issue of childcare. Can you find your sitter? And can you afford topay her?- female off-street out-call sex <strong>work</strong>ersOne escort felt that prohibiting sex <strong>work</strong>ers with children from <strong>work</strong>ing in the home would limittheir freedom to organize their <strong>work</strong> in the manner they deem most appropriate.A. Yeah, that’s right, what if a woman is choosing to <strong>work</strong> at home, for the same reasonsthat we do, because we like it, but she has a kid. Then what? Is she going to be forcedto then <strong>work</strong> in a massage parlour, with all of the complications? Working with othergirls, <strong>and</strong> all the bullshit being the employer-employee, y’know?- female off-street out-call sex <strong>work</strong>er208

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