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BRING YoURSELF INTo
A GooD BALANCE!
You will experience that you can grasp the thoughts and feelings of
others all the more easily the more balanced you are. Mind-reading
it is similar to talking on a cell phone. If interferences complicate
the conversation then the conversation becomes more difficult. And
when you are speeding at 220 on the highway then your heedfulness
is also rather limited. If you want to effectively, in the future,
grasp the thoughts of your counterpart then you should not have
any distractions and especially not emotional ones. Distractions
will cause you to be tempted to interpret. Let us remember our
lessons at school: Interpretations without documented quotes can
go awry! Therefore, you'll need to rely solely on the signals from
your counterpart and see your counterpart from a new perspective.
IF YoU SoMETIMES GET INTo
A DEAD ZoNE…
Sometimes it happens that we do not, at all, find access to other
people. Here it is advisable to simply take a break. Change the
subject or just go to the bathroom. Bring yourself back into a
good balance. The stronger your own constitution and your own
state of mind, the more you will succeed in reading the thoughts
of other people. Leave your own experiences or emotions from
previous conversations or other appointments either in the elevator,
in front of the door or in the car. Consider: You also communicate
non-verbally 90% of the time and, therefore, are sending
perpetual signals to your opponent. And as my grandmother used
to say: "Torsten, whatever you give, you get back!" And "how you
call into the forest so it will also echo!” You need to take care that
you don't read yourself because your counterpart is reading you.
SELF-AWARENESS
IN FRoNT oF THE MIRRoR!
We always have an effect! How? Well, we can find this out best
when we look closely and observe ourselves. What signals do you
send! Are you a friendly type and have a smile on your face, or
can one already see from afar that currently, it's more likely, that
there is low tide in the household budget? As Shakespeare so aptly
said: "The world's a stage and we are its actors.” I would like to
supplement this statement with the following question: And what
role do you play? Not that I have just read your thoughts! But I'm
sure, that especially with you, more is possible, right? Perhaps, in
the future, the thoughts of others will be of help to you!
Sincerely, Torsten Will
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TORSTEN
WILL
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