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Incest 0000i-xiv FM 1 - William L. White

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t h e i n c e st u o u s wo r k p lac e<br />

Such loss of direct communication is most dramatic during the latter<br />

stages of closure we described earlier as being characterized by loss of<br />

faith, scapegoating, and rebellion. Many of us have witnessed the sudden<br />

scapegoating (extrusion) of an organizational member and the accompanying<br />

no-talk rules that ominously prohibited open discussion of<br />

how and why the person was no longer part of the organization. And yet<br />

such incidents are processed in excruciating detail in the social subgroups<br />

outside the work setting. People who are part of more than one<br />

social subgroup serve as vehicles to transfer information and misinformation<br />

from one subgroup to another. This frantic level of activity and<br />

information exchange in the work-dominated social network is paralleled<br />

in the interactions inside the organization by silences and whispers<br />

regarding the same event.<br />

When no escape valves exist inside the organization, pent-up emotion<br />

may spill out in some unpredictable and potentially uncontrollable<br />

ways. Imagine the possibilities when we have such barely suppressed<br />

conflict and discomfort, and we bring all of the organizational members<br />

together for something like a Christmas party, and then add a drug such<br />

as alcohol that will lower the inhibitions and impulse control of many of<br />

those in attendance. One such event described to me occurred at an extremely<br />

troubled stage in the life of a professionally and socially closed<br />

organization. As the drinking altered judgment and loosened tongues<br />

over the course of the evening, the discharge of pent-up anger and resentment<br />

resulted in physical confrontations and serious destruction of<br />

property. Under other circumstances, it would have been sufficiently<br />

volatile to have warranted calling the police. In this case, however, those<br />

attending the party were the police.<br />

6.7 Social Relationships in Open and Closed Systems<br />

Social relationships among people who work together in open systems<br />

are established out of free choice and are based on common interests<br />

and the desires of those involved to share time and activities. Such relationships<br />

form out of individual preference and are not initiated or sustained<br />

by the dynamics of the organization. Such relationships are<br />

focused on personal interests rather than work issues. These workrelated<br />

friendships serve to supplement our existing nonwork social<br />

network. In open systems, members have easy access across the organizational<br />

boundary and the freedom to develop and maintain social

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