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PICTORIAL ON SHOWING DISINTEREST Both Mark and Julie are showing closed and disinterested body postures. Both have arms crossed and are guarded and both are looking away from each other. Clearly, there is no interest by either of them. Julie isn’t taking well to Mark. Her left hand is placed in between her legs so as to hide it and close off her torso. She is also looking away from him. Mark is showing a fairly needy position due to his chest being forward and he is leaning in toward Julie. He is also wringing his hands showing that he is nervous. Leaning on one’s thighs, in this way, is sometimes a defensive posture as it protects the torso from exposure. Depending on how leaning is performed, it could also mean interest as it brings the body closer to the speaker, but in this case, it does not. In this photograph Mark has a fairly awkward and aggressive body posture with his jaw and fists clenched. Julie isn’t taking well to him as she has closed off her body and is leaning away from him. Her legs are crossed and her shoulder is forming a barrier toward him. While her neck is exposed she is blocking his view of it with her arm and is avoiding eye contact altogether by looking at the floor. Julie is not interested. The Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language. 1st Edition, 2008. www.BodyLanguageProject.com Page 19
Dave is doing a poor job at reading Scarlett’s body language. He is more than likely invading her space without permission. Her face is turned away from him and drawn back from her natural body plane. Dave is leaning in and therefore acting confrontational. I suspect that Dave is moving too quickly and if he persists Scarlett will be taking a big step backwards, possibly towards the nearest exit. Scarlett is either completely bored and yawning or else offended by what Dave has said. Dave is obviously on the wrong track to attraction. His body language also indicates his own misfortune. His reaction shows his admittance to being caught saying something that he shouldn’t have. An interested woman will rarely be concerned with the hour. Being lost in the time is not happening here. Scarlett would surely not be concerned about being out too late if Dave was more interesting. Dave, on the other hand, is displaying poor body language as he is speaking through his hand. This is common for people with low self confidence who feel awkward or uncomfortable or who are lying. He also has one hand in his pocket which is normally perceived as dishonest, like he is hiding something. The Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language. 1st Edition, 2008. www.BodyLanguageProject.com Page 20
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Page 6 and 7: Importance should also be put on th
Page 8 and 9: Proximity as initiated by a woman i
Page 10 and 11: SECTION 3 STRATEGIES TO ESTABLISH C
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Page 16 and 17: Julie is bumping against Mark to ma
Page 18 and 19: SECTION 4 SIGNALS OF FEMALE DISINTE
Page 22 and 23: Both Mark and Julie are showing tha
Page 24 and 25: Here Dave is in a losing battle wit
Page 26 and 27: Both Dave and Scarlett are showing
Page 28 and 29: could be unconsciously exaggerated
Page 30 and 31: Overall, any motion a woman makes t
Page 32 and 33: vulnerable. The head tilt can also
Page 34 and 35: GROOMING AND PREENING Any grooming
Page 36 and 37: your object of affection, then when
Page 38 and 39: CHILDLIKE PLAYFULNESS A woman may b
Page 40 and 41: naturally and instantly, we can gau
Page 42 and 43: Drinking in unison and in between t
Page 44 and 45: Julie is performing the neck displa
Page 46 and 47: Scarlett is for the most part displ
Page 48 and 49: Scarlett is showing positive intere
Page 50 and 51: SECTION 6 USING BODY LANGUAGE TO GA
Page 52 and 53: planned. Don’t run about, instead
Page 54 and 55: TONALITY At least 30 percent of wha
Page 56 and 57: EYEBALL ASSAULT Women are especiall
Page 58 and 59: By putting his hands in his belt, D
Page 60 and 61: uncommon to come off as creepy to a
Page 62 and 63: TEASING AND OPPOSITE BODY LANGUAGE
Page 64 and 65: forward against a bar or on a table
Page 66 and 67: This is another method Mark has use
Page 68 and 69: Here Scarlet has moved directly in
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Mark has waited too long to speak t
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Mark is making his discomfort evide
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It’s a losing battle, Dave! Dave
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does so in a flirtatious way while
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