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Full synchrony can take anywhere from 15 minutes
to over 3 hours. You might also notice that the
echoes can occur up to a minute later. A woman
who has echoed your posture will be comfortable in
your presence and is also likely attracted to you.
You can test how much she likes you by changing
your body postures on purpose. The more she likes
you, the more she will follow. On the other hand,
you can mirror her postures having the effect of
sending the message to her. If however, she quickly
changes her body postures as you adopt hers, then
she is telling you that she is not interested.
pressure can also become matched. But what is
most visible is what occurs on the outside, and this
is a mirror between arms, legs and torso placement.
For example, say the left elbow of one person is on
the bar. The mirror would then be completed when
the other person places their right elbow on the bar.
Torsos in this situation would both be at 45 degrees
facing the room. The next step up from this could
be a drink that occurs in unison or each having one
foot up on the bar rail.
Full mirroring is occurring here which is signaling
interest. Mark has his left arm up on the bar and Julie has
her right arm up. The same body position is duplicated in
each, except in its opposite. This means there is a
connection between the two of them. If either Mark or
Julie were disinterest then their would modify their
position so as to become different.
A caution is required at this point. Do not
purposefully mirror everything a woman does. She
will quickly turn off to you. The key is to quicken
the mirroring that is already occurring and also add
in some postures of your own.
While standing, the typical sequence of events
occurs as follows: a woman will begin by standing
or sitting at your side and will then gradually turn to
face you. The more she faces you, the more
interested she is. It might amaze you to see a couple
that has been together for a long while as they may
begin to move practically in synchrony, as if they
were one person. They each drink at the same time
or shift at the same time, or look away at the same
time. Effectively this is a display that there is
something in common between them and it is
portrayed by the body instead of the mind.
It has been shown by researchers that long time
friends can tune into even the smallest expressions,
twitches or nods. It’s not unlike what happens with
twins, although they have a particularly strong
bond. Because they have so much in common, they
are able to read each other, and in effect, dance their
way through life as if it was choreographed. When
full synchrony occurs, metabolic rate and blood
Dancing is a great way to test a woman’s interest. If she is
interested in you she will begin to mirror or echo your body
positions. Since dancing is so fluid, it provides a great
opportunity to verify this. If she is disinterested, she will show
poor eye contact, be looking away or at other people, and in
essence, will be doing her own thing. Her dance moves will be
independent of yours and won’t occur in synchrony.
POINTING ISN’T RUDE
When a woman is attracted to you, she may
unconsciously point at you with her fingers, eyes,
hands, arms, legs, feet, and toes. Pointing toward
what we want and are thinking about is a very
prominent activity. Women can use their hands to
emphasis a part of their body, draw attention to their
face, genitals or breasts. Looking is another form of
pointing, and since women are normally much less
forward than men, keep a close watch on her eyes to
find out what she is thinking about.
The Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language. 1st Edition, 2008. www.BodyLanguageProject.com Page 28