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vulnerable. The head tilt can also occur outside of
courtship and one may find oneself doing it
subconsciously while at an interesting lecture (not
likely) or while in communication with someone
presenting an interesting story or idea. If a woman
adds eye contact and a smile when displaying her
neck, she is giving you even more information
about her sexual interest.
SHOULDER SHRUGS
This gesture is performed normally by a person with
a soft side. It is given by someone who is prepared
to let their guard down to someone else. It can be as
subtle as a small lift in the shoulders or could be a
full shrug and hold of the shoulders. It normally
happens very quickly though and can occur in
accompaniment with an eyebrow flash as well as
eye contact. This form of gesturing is often
unconscious so it makes for an accurate indicator of
interest. Other shrugging movements indicating
interest include shoulders up, shoulders flexed, and
shoulders back. Shrugging is an emotional
involuntary response to someone whom you like.
This gesture is universal, as is the majority of body
language, and not culturally specific. Men also
seem to perform this gesture when they are attracted
to a woman.
Having the head tilted at a 45 degree angle represents
undivided attention and interest in the communication that is
present. Scarlett is facing Dave and he is obviously saying
something amusing. It is fairly easy to catch people doing
this especially if you are with a group of people. Those most
immersed in the conversation will have their heads cocked to
the side and there will be varying degrees of head tilt (or no
tilt) for the remaining members of the group. Because eye
contact is present and her head is tilted, you can safely ignore
the fact that her arms are crossed (which is negative) as it
becomes insignificant.
NECK TOUCHING
The neck is a very intimate zone. Only those we
really trust are allowed to touch us in this place. If a
woman shows her neck to you and or strokes it with
her hand then she is sending a strong sign of
interest. This means that she is aroused and is
preparing for you to get closer to her. If you notice
that a woman is tilting her head to the side and
removing her hair to expose her neck, you are in
great shape. She is interested.
This is a shoulder shrug. It’s a demonstration of meekness
and shows the person of interest that she is willing to let her
guard down. Shoulder shrugs represent a shift toward
postures exhibited by children which is part of courtship.
While this posture is exaggerated and obvious for some
women it might only be a slight raise of the shoulders for
others. Like all body language, it is done subconsciously and
is directed toward people we like and are attracted to.
ROTATION OF THE PELVIS
While sitting or standing, a woman may subtly roll
her pelvis. She may also move her arms and
shoulders back so as to make her breasts become
more obvious. Upon interest, her chest will seem to
protrude further and her posture will become more
proper.
The neck is an intimate zone of our bodies. We use it often
in seduction and it is a great place to kiss and induce arousal.
The reason it is so attractive is because it is vulnerable, and
seduction is all about breaking down barriers between the
sexes. Scarlett is not only displaying her neck, but is also
stroking it. Subconsciously she is probably imagining that
Dave is kissing it. Also note that she has removed her hair to
expose her neck even more.
IT’S IN THE HAIR
If a woman is really turned on, she will hold all of
her hair in her hands, and then place it on top of her
head. She will then tilt her head around to face you
while looking over a raised shoulder. You can
probably visualize this image in your head right
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