The Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual ... - Wuala
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PICTORIAL ON PERSONAL SPACE<br />
Dave is making another poor approach here by ignoring<br />
body positions <strong>and</strong> levels. He has cornered Scarlett into the<br />
booth. She is showing that she is not impressed by folding her<br />
arms across her body. She is trying to act passively<br />
confrontational by avoiding eye contact. Dave should even<br />
the planes of their bodies <strong>and</strong> resume positive dialogue as<br />
Scarlett isn’t receptive to his current advances.<br />
<strong>The</strong> tables have been turned in this situation. This illustrates the<br />
importance of body positions <strong>and</strong> levels well. Scarlett is towering<br />
over Dave making him feel subordinate <strong>and</strong> intimidated. <strong>The</strong><br />
plane her body makes encroaches near, <strong>and</strong> possibly over, the<br />
halfway mark on the table. Dave is showing that he is being<br />
aggressed upon <strong>and</strong> is pulling his drink toward himself <strong>and</strong> trying<br />
to avoid direct eye contact by moving his chin away from her. It<br />
is evident that Scarlett is putting Dave down <strong>and</strong> asserting her<br />
position over him. <strong>The</strong>se are all indicators of disinterest as she is<br />
using body language to establish control over the relationship.<br />
Dave is using body language here to his advantage. He<br />
wants to come across as non-threatening so he lowers his<br />
body height compared to hers. Using body language in this<br />
way does not necessarily mean that the man is less dominant,<br />
but it does show courtesy. Scarlett appreciates this approach<br />
<strong>and</strong> even permits him to move closer than normal with only a<br />
few inches separating her forearm <strong>and</strong> his h<strong>and</strong>. It is<br />
important to approach a woman from the front so as not to<br />
block her in or intimidate her.<br />
Whispering by either sex is a great way to force people to move<br />
into their personal space. Since Scarlett is doing the whispering,<br />
Dave could take this to mean that she is interested <strong>and</strong> wants him<br />
to move closer.<br />
<strong>The</strong> <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong> <strong>Project</strong>: <strong>Dating</strong>, <strong>Attraction</strong> <strong>and</strong> <strong>Sexual</strong> <strong>Body</strong> <strong>Language</strong>. 1st Edition, 2008. www.<strong>Body</strong><strong>Language</strong><strong>Project</strong>.com Page 6