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It’s a losing battle, Dave! Dave would have a much better shot at regaining or simply gaining Scarlett’s attention by standing up and circling to the front of her. He is showing that he is insecure by not leaving his post at the bar to make his approach. Even if he tapped her on the shoulder, I doubt he could secure her interest. No amount of “body groveling” will get her to move around and nobody responds well to a stiff jab in the back from a stranger, especially from a seemingly subordinate man. Julie is taking control of the interaction by leaving. Mark is trying to regain her company. It looks like she has found someone more interesting to accompany her. By reaching for her in this way, Mark is lowering himself to her and will be forced to continue the chase indefinitely. He would be better off to approach her at a later time or wait for more signals of interest before continuing his pursuit. The Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language. 1st Edition, 2008. www.BodyLanguageProject.com Page 73
SECTION 7 BODY LANGUAGE - A CONCLUSION Because men and women are risking a large amount of pride on their interactions with each other, they often send conflicting signals. This serves to protect them from damage caused by rejection. You should never (ever) use verbal language to pose the question of the degree of attraction a woman has for you, especially early in a relationship. The most significant reason for not asking is because it’s completely unnecessary. It also demands direct and often risky verbal language in return. head tilt, but if it is accompanied by crossed arms then it becomes ambiguous. To be sure that a woman is really interested in you, you should look for at least three to four independent signals simultaneously. You must also make sure that they are aimed specifically at you with eye contact. Use the whole body as the display board, not just parts. Sometimes a woman will send mixed messages until she can tell whether or not you are interested. Be the initiator and send some of your own hints first. She might just follow your lead. You now have the tools to both read people and also allow people to read you. Use them! But avoid coming on overly strong. She will think that you have nothing better to do, or that you see her as a queen. Just remember that no queen is attracted to her peasants. A woman who is interested in you is stuck between two extremities. One, she wants to attract you, and two, she wants a long-term relationship (most of the time, at least). For this reason, she cannot overtly display her interest in you. If a woman comes off more forward than others, she is probably signaling her interest in a short-term relationship. However, since most women want more than just a one-night stand, you must expect them to be somewhat ambiguous with their signals. Most women are both undecided with their interest and are also concerned about coming across as being promiscuous. You should also note a woman’s sexual body language both before you talk to her, and after. If she shows positive signals before you speak with her but this turns in a negative direction after you start talking, then she is either unimpressed by the things you are saying or she was sending the initial signals to someone else. If, on the other hand, she sends even stronger positive signals after dialogue is established then you can bet that she is interested. Another important aspect of body language is that women often give off conflicting signals. A woman can signal interest in a man with eye contact and a If a woman’s body language does not correspond to her spoken language, pay more attention to her body language because it will often be more accurate. Thus, if she tells you that she is uninterested but The Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language. 1st Edition, 2008. www.BodyLanguageProject.com Page 74
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