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PHILOSOPHY, MOTIVATION. AND MANAGEMENT 175<br />

Then, wh€n it came time for me to be of age to<br />

want to play the game, two men came to Snyder:<br />

Speedy Mofat <strong>and</strong> Mule Kizer. Both had played<br />

at Texas Tech.<br />

When they came in, I immediately began to<br />

idol r7e them. because they talkedabout winning<br />

<strong>and</strong> the importance of winning. I knew how to<br />

work, but they knew what was important, <strong>and</strong><br />

that was to win, not only on the field, but off the<br />

freld.I mg-tagged around as a student, butwhen<br />

they came there,I rag-tagged no more.<br />

The last day I played hooky, Mulewhipped my<br />

rcar from one end of the dressing room to the<br />

other Pieces of paddle were flying everywhere.<br />

He wore me out <strong>and</strong> taught me a lesson about<br />

the importance ofeducation.As long as I was going<br />

to be a part of that team, I was going to be a<br />

disciplined member of that team, on or otr the<br />

fieid.<br />

Mule said, "Be disciplined, Grant, be disciplined<br />

in everythins you do." Be disciplined in<br />

your study ofth€ game, in your approach to the<br />

game, <strong>and</strong> in th€ tundamentah ofthe game. Be<br />

disciplined, be tough.<br />

He also said, "Grant, Speedy <strong>and</strong> I believe one<br />

ofthe most important parh ofwinningis effort. I<br />

know you are slow, <strong>and</strong> I know you are little, but<br />

ifyou give u3 effort eve4. down on eve4. day, in<br />

every way, we're gonna find a place for you to<br />

play."<br />

Artd they did, <strong>and</strong> I n€ver left th€ field fiom<br />

that day. I played both ways <strong>and</strong> was captain of<br />

€very team I waF ever on, because they taught<br />

me the fundamentals of success discipline,<br />

toughness, <strong>and</strong> effort. Then they began to teach<br />

more. They began to tak€ me, as a child, to mold<br />

me in a way that would change my lif€ forcver.<br />

Not only did they say discipline, not only did<br />

they say effort, they said toushness-mental <strong>and</strong><br />

physical toughness combined with carins. Care<br />

enough to be loyal to your teammates, care<br />

enough to b€ loyal to family <strong>and</strong> to yourseu, but<br />

be tough. Be toush mentally, be tough physicalbr<br />

You don't hav€ to tak€ a back s€at to anybody;be<br />

tough.<br />

And then one day Mule Kizer pulled me aside<br />

<strong>and</strong> said, "Ifyorreally wanttobe successful, you<br />

got to be error free." I Baid, "W})at do you mean,<br />

erlor fr€e" He Baid, "You can't make mistakes.<br />

Other guys with more talentwill make mistakes,<br />

<strong>and</strong> if you don't make mistakes you can win."<br />

Yeah, enor free, no mistakes on the football field,<br />

no mistak€s otrthe footbatl field, seize your opportunity,<br />

take advantage of the time that you<br />

have. Sit in that class <strong>and</strong> listen instead of day<br />

dreaming +rror Iiee.<br />

What a fantastic piece of advice. H€ said one<br />

day, 'You arc tough, Gmnt, you ar€ real tough,<br />

but you need to be aggressive, otrthefield as well<br />

as on the field." I said, "What do you mean" <strong>and</strong><br />

he said,'Well,just apprcach everything with the<br />

same aggression that you have on the freld. You<br />

will stick your nose <strong>and</strong> face on ant'thing that<br />

mov€s. You are not afraid of an]'thing out there.<br />

Dont be afraid of anlthing offthe field. Approach<br />

it like yor are going to rob a banl: plan, discuss,<br />

drcam, plan, discuss, dream, visualize, <strong>and</strong> com-<br />

I b€gan to use film like probably no other guy<br />

from Snyder Texas ever used it. The film wasn't<br />

v€ry good, but as they would g€l a film or two in<br />

on our opponent, I would sit for hours <strong>and</strong> study<br />

the way my opponent moved, how he lined up,<br />

<strong>and</strong> what he was going to do on the snap of the<br />

footbell. It allowed me to underst<strong>and</strong> the game of<br />

football.<br />

Finally, one day, I got into a fight on the foot,<br />

ball field. Mule didnl m,nd 'rwe<br />

had fish( in us.<br />

but he pulled me asid€ again <strong>and</strong> he said, "Look,<br />

it's okay to be willing to fight; there is nothing<br />

wrong with that, but you lose if you are not in<br />

contml."Be in control ofyour rni nd <strong>and</strong> your body<br />

That was pretty hard to ask ofa guy tobein<br />

control ofhis body when he had a had time running-but<br />

it was a point well made. He said,furthermore,<br />

to be in control ofeverything. Don't let<br />

somebody hit you in the back out on the lootbali<br />

freld, pmvoke you into a fight, <strong>and</strong> destmy what<br />

you have already gajned. The second guy always<br />

gets the penalty.<br />

It's a simple thought <strong>and</strong> a simple prccess,but<br />

be in contrcl. Be in contlol as a fathea be in control<br />

as a husb<strong>and</strong>, be in contml ofyour physical<br />

body, be in control of your natural instincts-be<br />

in control ofyour mind.<br />

If you don't want to end up with an alcohol<br />

problem,bein control <strong>and</strong> don't drink.Ifyou don't<br />

wantto die ollungcancer, dontsmoke. B€ in con-<br />

It was a revelation that changed my life- It<br />

came liorn a high school football coach. B€ in control<br />

I am the one in contlol. I conlml mJ owI<br />

destiny.IfI am going to control my destiny,I need<br />

lo set goals. T nepd ro know wh.fe I am going.<br />

How amI going to get there jfl don't know where<br />

I am soing<br />

Conhol ofyour own destiny it's mine, it's not<br />

anybody €he's. I can be wbat I want to be;I can

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