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Powell, "The Moral Elevation of Girls," Feb. 1886<br />

themselves, the aim being to encourage self-respect and to stimulate a<br />

general improvement of character. These young girls are very<br />

sensitive to any thing that has the aspect of a charity and these efforts<br />

wisely take on the character of co-operative help. The evenings are<br />

made pleasant and profitable. Instruction and amusement are blended,<br />

opportunities are given for friendly talks on many topics, and<br />

confidential relations are established. Some of the women who have<br />

become interested in these young girls in this way have had<br />

revelations of the temptations which assail them that have led them to<br />

see the necessity of broadening the efforts for their protection. We<br />

commend to all a careful reading of the thoughts presented in this<br />

pamphlet under the heading of Girlhood, from which we make the<br />

following extracts:<br />

"In all intercourse, ladies should show loving attention in little<br />

things to the girls. They crave love and its demonstration, and seldom<br />

receive it from an overworked mother or grasping father. What wonder<br />

that they readily believe the first man who promises it to them, and that<br />

they are so often led astray by their affection. The temptations put forth<br />

in alluring shape by the foremen, superintendents, and other men<br />

working in the same shop or factory, can hardly be believed by those<br />

who are not subjected to such influences. It is a horrible thought that<br />

hundreds of girls are led into lives of sin by those who ought to protect<br />

and guard them. Three girls were once found in the maternity ward of<br />

a New York hospital all giving the same name as that of the man who<br />

had brought them to deep distress and who was the foreman of the<br />

factory where they all worked."<br />

"To give the girls some knowledge of their physical structure and<br />

the special functions of their sex, to teach them to reverence the body<br />

as the very temple of the Holy Spirit, and to deplore every thought, act,<br />

and habit that profanes it; to urge them to shun every temptation to<br />

impurity, and to guard themselves and others from the first approaches<br />

of evil--these are the lessons and counsels which every older woman<br />

who befriends these young girls should be prepared to impress upon<br />

them. To ignore these subjects is to neglect a most important part of<br />

this preventive work, and to neglect that has brought shame and<br />

misery into many a young life. But the method of giving this instruction<br />

must be left to the individual teacher. It must be in accordance with her<br />

character and experience. Great harm can be, and has been done, by<br />

the indiscriminate presentation of ideas and images that may shock<br />

and offend a young person’s sensibilities. That wise reserve in regard<br />

to the relations of the sexes which characterizes the English speaking<br />

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