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we think people can consent. Current age of consent laws are not preventing teen sex, and there is
no way to do that without returning to Victorian attitudes about sex all around. The positive effects
of more comprehensive sex ed are twofold. Obviously you get reduced STD transmission and teen
pregnancy rates (teen pregnancy being lower today than in the 1950s). But you get another more
indirect benefit. People who know more about their bodies and are taught to be okay with their
sexuality are more confident and have better self-esteem. Even if we can't pin down cases of
coercion, surely that confidence and the sense of owning their bodies helps protect teens against
coercion by anyone. Once more comprehensive sex ed takes root, I'd try working on a standard of
consent that requires passing a sex ed course. People do need to know what they're doing
physically when they have this type of sex or that. They need to know the risks. Pregnancy, STDS,
etc. As for knowing whether they're ready, that can't be taught. And a person's emotional readiness
for sex can't be gauged any better than they gauge it themselves.
What I Write About
Most of my stories outside the Suran Continuity are classic lesbian or bisexual erotica. This as
opposed to plain ol' smut. Smut doesn't turn me on. Love does. All of the links to my stories have
story codes beneath them, and these codes are explained at the Alt.Sex.Stories Text Repository,
which hosts this site.
I write from the heart. My stories reflect my own interests, needs, and psychology. As such,
nothing I write contains coercion, force, emotional abuse, or any treatment I do not want for
myself. I can't write a story about something that doesn't arouse me either sexually or
intellectually, and cruelty does neither. My stories are romantic, loving, emotionally validating,
and as believable as I can make them. When you read my work, I don't want the banality of the
characters' everyday lives to be boring, but rather a connection between them and you. Even within
the Suran Continuity, my characters have jobs, and live real lives, just like you and me. They don't
have fifty gushing orgasms a day, or three breasts, or the ability to magically turn passing
pedestrians into crazed sluts, because that's not accessible to a reader who has to live a real life.
Their lives are meant to show you that a happy sex life can be part of your life too, not just a
wishful fantasy that's beyond your reach.
Navigating the Site
I'm assuming by now you've noticed the frame to the left. These are links leading to the various
sections of the site. "Home" brings you back to this page. "faq/fmc" will take to the site's
Frequently Asked Questions and Frequently Made Comments area. "Journal" leads to my
LiveJournal musings on things I run into from day to day. "Ethics" will take you to a page
explaining my stances on various issues. "Suran" is a reference section explaining my serial, the
Chronicles of Suran. "News" will take you to a list of site updates by month and day. "Stories" will
take you to my erotic stories, including the Chronicles themselves. You can read the stories here,
or download them to your hard drive. "Links" will take you to sites I find to be of interest, most of
them about childlove. "Ask Cat" will take you to my column at the Human Face of Pedophilia.
And I think "Email Me" is pretty self-explanatory.
Disclaimers
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